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Search Results: do guys back off
Went from texting every day to every 5 days once I left for a work trip?
I met this guy on a dating app, we seemed to hit it off the first 2 dates and went to multiple places and spent almost 5 hours together each one. We also texted every day. However, right before I was supposed to leave for...
lilychoufan
Xper 2 Age: 27 Girl was looking down and smiling while walking next to a guy who was staring at me with WIDELY OPENED EYES (he did not stop staring one bit) why was?
I was walking in a Walmart and this chick and dude walking with each other were talking. Then when they saw me the dude was staring at me (didn’t blink once, didn’t take his eyes off me either). I kept looking at the dude...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why this time he's no longer talking about his feelings?
We've been together for 7 years on and off, we always come back together like there's always reason to come back, even though in the past we have dates other people and me got engaged in the pats but broke up and we got...
Anonymous
(36-45) Am I wrong for wanting to fix my friend up?
I matchmake. It’s what I do for my friends and not to toot my own horn, but I’m good at it. I’ve brought so many of my friends into happy, healthy relationships that eventually turned into happy marriages. I have one...
Anonymous
(36-45) My friend won’t except she was in a situationship. Am I wrong for calling it like I see it?
She met this guy 11 months ago. He broke it off with her last month because she was late in meeting him. They acted like boyfriend/girlfriend but never labeled it and yet she’s still acting like it’s a breakup and calling...
Anonymous
(36-45) Thoughts on this relationship?
He brought a girl a sandwich - when i asked about it he said lets fucking call her then then why are we doing this! Has a lot of girl friends but i met them and have gone to their house Drove drunk early in our...
Jenny67789
Xper 1 Age: 26 Is my colleague just really friendly or into me?
There this guy at my work called Dan. Dan is a medical student whose on a gap year from uni and working at my work to make some money for when he goes back uni at the end of August. Dan's been at my work since October and...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do people stare at me too much?
Does not matter where I go I don't know if it's because I'm seen walking because I don't have a car. If it's younger girls they start laughing at me and say "That's her." If it's older guys or any adult man they stare at...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why do so many guys hit the gym shortly after a breakup?
I see it all the time. Everywhere. Whether in person or on social media. There are even "guys after breakup" memes. I'm talking about the guys who never cared to go to gym all this time but soon after breakup, things...
m Why do people stare at me WAY TOO MUCH?
At this point it's getting creepy, terrifying, and obsessive. I don't know if it has to do with the fact that I dont have a car so I walk everywhere I already get harassed by guys when walking but anytime I go somewhere...
Anonymous
(25-29) Me and a guy have just started to getting serious, but he pulls away?
I have been off and on with a guy that I got an instant connection with a year ago. We reconnected a few months ago, and been going strong for over two months. We have had a rocky start where we both had separate...
Anonymous
(30-35) To the women with boyfriends?
To the women with boyfriends. So this girl during training class was eyeing me for a couple of times. Very attractive woman and I thought nah she'll never notice me. I thought maybe late 20s early 30s. Very vintage...
Anonymous
(30-35) Would you ever date a white girl who dated a ghetto black guy?
I wouldn't. I know one I was trying to date but black is more important it seems. It turned me off. She is pretty trashy though. Grown up in a mainly ghetto black neighborhood where they're all obnoxious loud egotistical...
Anonymous
(25-29) Does he just want to satisfy his ego or does he like me? My friend just like him?
He was extremely flirty. And a few girls told me about him, even though I didn't bring it up, that he was a very flirty guy and talked to every girl last year. That's why I didn't take him seriously. Every word he said...
Anonymous
(25-29) Is he just being friendly or is there something more teacher?
He’s the only male teacher working at the kindergarten. I'm currently studying and I recently started working at this kindergarten, which is really close to my school — so it’s easy for me to go back and forth. When I...
Anonymous
(25-29) What should I do about this guy at work?
Worked together for 7 years. I’m 33 he is 52. I’ve always liked him I’ve been confused about my feelings for years due to the age gap and work dynamics but as it’s been so long, I can’t keep going on this way as my...
Anonymous
(30-35) Guys, I met a guy on a dating app but he spends more time talking about having sex with me, than getting to know me. What should I do?
I’ve been out of the dating scene for fifteen years now and previously I’ve only had one boyfriend. I am very inexperienced when it comes to love, so if my question comes off silly, well I apologize in advance. Anyway, I...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I end things before they get too serious?
3 months ago I met this guy in one of my classes, When we first started talking we started texting for a few days then he ghosted for around a week. I was chill cause he was only a friend then he came back we spoke for a...
bethrog08
Xper 1 Age: 27 Did he say this just to hurt me?
I met a guy at a social event several months ago. We spoke for several months and I met up with him last week. I’ve thought back on everything and I think he is a misogynist. He would go on rants about “European” woman,...
Anonymous
(25-29) After wasting 10 years of my life, this is how I'm bouncing back.
Hello all. This is not a vent or a call for help. I'm just sharing my journey of failures, trauma and learnings from 2014 to 2024. I hope this might help some who are in similar situation. Let's rewind time to 2015. I was...
Anonymous
(25-29) 