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I'm in university and there's this guy in my class who I think is super cute but he seems to be more on the awkward or quiet side? Like in a group setting he's definitely more likely to stay on the side and maybe throw out a witty remark but definitely not one of the people who are the center of attention. He's relatively quiet most of the time but obviously more comfortable with people he seems to be better friends with.

I haven't really gotten to talk to him much but usually when we have he's still pretty quiet. Like he'll make some stupid joke occasionally but still relatively quiet. Something I noticed though is that this boy hardlyyy ever gives me any eye contact. He'll stare off at whatever in front of him while we're talking. But while he's walking with another dude or even a girl he's kinda friends with he can look at them just fine. Like if I'm sitting next to my friend he'll look at my friend at talk to them ok but he won't look at me.

The thing is I'm an awkward girl too. Really shy and awkward and can't really find the right words to say. So I can't tell if it's just me making things uncomfortable in general. When we text though (we've only had like a solid 3 convos through text which I initiated) he's really fun and talkative. I felt like it was so natural and fun which doesn't just happen with anyone for me. None of that comes through in real life but I think thats just the awkwardness. I really want to get to know him more but I don't know if I have a shot because he never initiates convo.

Also one time I sent him this dumb Instagram reel that was like "the person with this initial owes you ______". and he responded with something like "maybe sometime but my schedule has been all over the place". Was that just him trying to let me down nicely or is he actually down to hang out? I wanna keep trying to text him but I don't want to bug him if he's busy or just finds me uncomfortable.

If anyone has any advice that would be so great. thanks!

So there’s two girls.. let’s call one of them April. She been with her babydaddy over 12 years now. Well she has a history dating multiple men. nevertheless, she kicks them out and run back to her babydaddy. This girl we can call April got involved with a married man. She knew about the woman but didn’t know the man was married. However, her sister knew the entire time but didn’t tell her. Multiple family members knew but didn’t tell her.
she was giving this man money and couldn’t even get the man to even pay a bill for her. She was taking care of a man with two jobs, who still is married to his wife.

another woman we can call “Daph” was another woman involved with this married man. Spent more than 10k on him and was giving him advice about the other woman April. The married man was calling both women to get advice and to vent about one another. The married man always referred to them as “friend”. Daph found out he was married by Facebook.

the married man wouldn’t let either one or their relatives tag him in anything on Facebook. he didn’t add either woman on his social medias. You weren’t allowed to post anything romantic on his page. He had post approval on.

well the girl April found out about the married man but couldn’t get information on her, so she started digging.

The married man has his wife living like a queen. Both women are currently trying to fight the wife. The wife is a stay at home wife and has a private chef. She gets her own money. they just bought a home together. his wife don’t have to worry about anything.

all this went down on Facebook.