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A lot of men in recent years (especially on the internet) that 80% of women these days are only dating and having sex with the top 20% of men, leaving the remaining 80% of men to fight over the remaining 20% of women. I think this belief has been fueled by dating apps since it has also been claimed that the apps have inflated women’s standards dramatically because they get so many matches on them and are naturally only aiming for the highest tier of men on their list of matches. They also claim that women are sharing this 20% of men and seeing them casually in hopes that they will choose to enter into a committed relationship with them.

She assumed I'm a patient man that has self-control. Though she has expressed to eventually wanting to take things to the next level. Her assumption is wrong though. It's not about having self-control nor being a patient man. I don't have much sex drive; little to none. It's lower than even a reserved, shy woman.

I'm ok with making-out, holding hangs and hugs though. I still feel attraction towards women but I just don't feel like having sex. Our relationship is great without arguments. I just haven't told her that. I don't want to lose her though. I wish I can keep her. Am I really stringing her along?