My girlfriend says her ex boyfriend made her get it (a 2 year relationship when she was around 22) and she wish she could get it removed but she can't afford it right now. The thing is though is she never said anything and I found out after having sex with her the second time. I brought it up cause I knew what it stood for, she started crying and it made me feel bad and she seemed very genuine that it was a mistake from her past.
I am white 29M and I really like her and don't want to end things because of this. BUT having her home while I work is worrying me. I feel like I don't trust her... I do but I don't... ugghh its so hard to decide, I have been really falling hard for her...
Am I crazy? Am I blowing this out of proportion? What should I do to make this work? I feel like getting it removed is a great first step but I don't know if it will subside my worries completely...
I am also only 5 inches so this is making me feel very self conscious about my size. I never asked her if it was a size thing... but isn't that half of what it stands for?
Also please consider her feelings in this, I don't want to hurt her.
