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Below you will see what I have seen seems to be the most common difference between relationships that succeed and those that fail in more modern times. To reduce any confusion please answer with the assumption that our hypothetical relationships are identical in every aspect. You and your boyfriend/girlfriend begin having problems communicating, nothing huge just a bit of a disconnect. You both very much love each other and aside from the disconnect in communication things are going well despite sometimes feeling a bit of distance. Do you? (See vote and feel free to explain your choice)

Please note there is no judgment. If anything hopefully this might help you grow regardless of your selection. Introspection can be quite helpful.

Anonymous disabled sorry anons you going to have to put your name on your stance. If you are saying it you should be proud of your stance and willing to put your name on it.

I’m currently living with my parents trying to bag up $60,000 right now I’m sitting at $49,000. The original plan was to put a down payment on a house when I save up 60,000.

However, my girlfriend just bought her home and wants me to come live with her and pay little. Problem is I don’t agree with how she lives, but I have no say since it’s her house.

The condo is super small and she too much stuff. It’s to a point where the spare bedroom is off limits. She always has people staying over with their pets and kids. Everyone sleeps in the living room on the floor. Sometimes she even sleeps on the floor and lets her guests stay in her bed. Lots of her friends have keys to her house. I don't know if I can live that life with her.

With all that being said should I move in with her or just get my own my place?