She wants a relationship. I love attention from woman. Not seeking woman, I feel it’s rude while talking to someone. Awful cycle of lust vs stability?

[Anonymous]

I’d love some advice when it comes to my dating life. I’m stuck in a cycle of dating woman and either having them break it off with me because they prefer someone else, or the harder problem when I start dating someone and they start to really like me because I treat them well while I get to know them.
The current situation, she wants to be my girlfriend, and we’re definitely acting like we’re in a relationship. But then I feel stuck as soon as I say yes. When I’m out, I see woman looking and if they talk to me, I of course have a convo, but I don’t go out actively seeking woman because I feel that’s rude while talking to someone and getting to know them deeper. I’m in an awful conscious cycle of loving my current situation 80%, buy feeling 20% like there could be better. And there always will be in the looks and lust department.

[StarWarGirl]

She could be worse also na. What's percentage of being the other person worse dramatic manipulative, toxic, psychic?

Love and relationship is about commitment and sacrifices. Where we sacrifice our other advantages for good and better. Nobody is perfect. All have goods and bads. Better you choose one and stick to her. That's rule for being civilized. We all gets temptations but we have to kill our temptations.

[Anonymous]

Sounds like you either lack confidence in yourself OR you haven’t found “the one”. When you do, you won’t want/need to look around.

[Avicenna]

You don't seem to know what you want. Women sense stuff like that quickly.

[Selene1600000]

What you’re feeling is normal, but it’s coming from comparing real connection to “possibility thinking,” which never ends. No relationship will feel 100% certain, and there will always be someone more attractive somewhere, so chasing that will keep you stuck. If you like her and she treats you well, the real question is whether you can commit to building something instead of staying mentally half-open to other options.

[Anonymous]

She deserves better u sound like a kid