Relationships

I want more attention from my girlfriend.

She's very hot and cold, and sometimes I really over think things and I don't know what's going on. Some days, she is really excited to see me, she dressed up and whatnot. She texts me all day, and when I have to leave she pulls me in and tells me not to leave her and she makes plans with me the following day.

Then, there are times when I rarely ever hear from her. She'll text me and I usually reply immediately. Some days, it takes her hours to reply. It annoys me, because I will send the text and she will have activity on Facebook through her phone before she even bothers to reply. I guess it is a little disheartening when she doesn't make it her first priority. It just feels like when I am with her she cares, and she wants to be with me and when we are apart it feels somewhat distant. When it takes me longer than usual to reply, she sends me another text asking why I didn't reply! It just seems a bit unfair. Sometimes, stupid I know, I feel a bit bitter and take an hour or so to reply to her just to do it.

I guess it really is a dumb complaint. It just confuses me how at one moment she can be all over me and love being with me, and a second later be completely distant. The thing is, this is the second time we've dated each other. I may be a little insecure about the relationship solely because of that, and I have a habit of reading into things too much. When we were first together, she would text me constantly and apologize if it took her more than TEN minutes to reply. Now, she goes and does other things before she even bothers to reply. Just based on past experience, I would gauge that as her not having much interest.
I want more attention from my girlfriend.
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