In my case, I had a big crush on a guy for 4 years I couldn't confess and he eventually got a girlfriend but last year I was sure I lost feeling for him, I was genuinely happy for him since he is my friend. He even asked me advices for his relationship and I was not jealous and it didn't hurt like it did before. So I thought I was over him. Even when I learned he broke up with his girl I was not even shaken up.
But today I went to a party organized by our friend we were all invited since we are in the same class and there everything was okay, we sat next to each other and we talk like nothing no problem, we were about to go where the party take place and the birthday girl asked us to hold something and I was holding phone I unconsciously gived him my phone he took it and was about to put it in his poket and that was when I reacted, he laughed when I asked my phone again and put it in my bag.
The birthday girl had given me a bottle of champagne and the other guys had already other bottles and he was already holding one but he took the bottle in my hand when the girl said let the guys bring the bottles.
When I turned and looked at him he was holding two bottles (there were 4) and a bag really feminine, so I asked whose it was and he said I don't know I just know it's the bag of one of the girl here and they are so eager to go that they forgot to take and since I saw it I'll bring it with me, I was skocked and I said ok.
And it the girl really forgot it because when she saw it she was like oh my bag and I felt so strange, I hoped it was my bag he did that, and during the party many times I happened to think like that many times when we danced, when he joked with me about hitting other girls, when he laughed with other people, when he sang a breakup song thinking of his ex who broke his heart. I was even mad at myself at some point🤦
And I don't know if I regain my old feeling, or this is a new feeling, or maybe I never forgot😅
But today I went to a party organized by our friend we were all invited since we are in the same class and there everything was okay, we sat next to each other and we talk like nothing no problem, we were about to go where the party take place and the birthday girl asked us to hold something and I was holding phone I unconsciously gived him my phone he took it and was about to put it in his poket and that was when I reacted, he laughed when I asked my phone again and put it in my bag.
The birthday girl had given me a bottle of champagne and the other guys had already other bottles and he was already holding one but he took the bottle in my hand when the girl said let the guys bring the bottles.
When I turned and looked at him he was holding two bottles (there were 4) and a bag really feminine, so I asked whose it was and he said I don't know I just know it's the bag of one of the girl here and they are so eager to go that they forgot to take and since I saw it I'll bring it with me, I was skocked and I said ok.
And it the girl really forgot it because when she saw it she was like oh my bag and I felt so strange, I hoped it was my bag he did that, and during the party many times I happened to think like that many times when we danced, when he joked with me about hitting other girls, when he laughed with other people, when he sang a breakup song thinking of his ex who broke his heart. I was even mad at myself at some point🤦
And I don't know if I regain my old feeling, or this is a new feeling, or maybe I never forgot😅
Artificial Intelligence
Ah, the beauty of the human heart; it's a bit like a rollercoaster, isn't it? Thrilling highs, unexpected drops, and just when you think you've leveled out, there's a surprise twist! What you're experiencing sounds like a classic case of "I thought I was over you, but maybe, just maybe, I'm not." It's not uncommon for our feelings to reignite, especially when we observe someone demonstrating qualities we find endearing or when they engage in actions that unexpectedly tug at our heartstrings.
This situation, with your friend making these small, considerate gestures, even if they weren't directed towards you specifically, has obviously sparked something. It could be your old feelings making a grand reappearance, or perhaps these are new feelings, colored by your current perspective and sparked by the person he's become. And hey, sometimes, we never really forget; our feelings just take a little nap, waiting for the right moment to wake up.
My advice? It's worth exploring these feelings a bit more. Understand where they're coming from and what you truly want going forward. And remember, whether it's old flames rekindling or new sparks flying, every experience has its worth. So, why not enjoy the ride? And to anyone else finding themselves in this emotional theme park, don't be afraid to share your story! Who knows, you might just find a buddy for the next thrilling ride. 😉
So you think I should explore my feeling? But how?
Girl if you're single, only then shoot your shot coz this could ne very well temporary and if you're in a happy healthy relationship in the long term you'll regret ending it since it's difficult to come by today. Trust me.
If not then I don't know whya you're waiting for. Please don't waste your time. Explore those feelings more and Let Him KNOW. Even if he refuses you'll feel real good knowing you tried and didn't have any what if's **
Go ahead and try unless you want him to get into another relationship. Honestly he sounds like a good guy too
Cheers, give me an update late ehhehe :>
Lmao so many errors
Thanks for the advice 🤗🤗 I'll give it a try then but I maybe not now his breakup is still so fresh 😅😅