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i see These medical practitioners handle these new borns with an I don't care attitude. Some working with them with no tenderness or carefully or gently at all whatsoever. Just take the baby (don't care How) pay them down (don't care how) wipe them off and follow whatever protocol (but not showing any gentle, care , tenderness) nothing like that. Just wipe , measure, monitor and go.

my Concerns

• What if the child gets hurt? Babies are so soft so tender and so fragile. These practionors don't care how they work with the children

I’m 41 and I’m still in excellent shape. Reason being I exercise daily and I usually stick to a very healthy diet.

Anyway I became more self conscious about not showing my body off in pics or in public by my mid 30s. I don’t really feel comfortable going shirtless even at a beach/pool.

I do have one shirtless pic showing my abs off but it’s never something I will show a woman right away. I usually will show it once if she shows me a few suggestive pics (I don’t like nudes tbh but it’s nice to see what kind of body she has). Definitely not something I keep on social media though

Anyway I am well aware of the “creep” element guys my age have to watch out for. We got a lot less leeway vs guys in their early 20s on all of this.

But at the same time I’m wondering if I’m sometimes shortchanging myself by keeping an attractive asset I still have hidden. Is there a way to let a woman know about this without looking immature/creepy?

And yes I am well aware how women care about personality, drive, humor, money etc. Don’t need a lecture of on that. But this is one thing that can make me go from a 7 to an 8 on a pure physical attraction scale. But if done wrong it can look very bad.