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Co worker situation?

So a co worker and I started to take to each other more seriously and we ended up deciding to date. We went as far as kissing a few times on dates. Then it slowly became hard to see her and set up dates. She ended up...
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Low income, overdue bills and loans… Is there still a way to resolve?

Without giving too much details, allow me to share a backgrounder on how I ended up in a huge amount of debt with minimal resources at the moment. I faced a lot of challenges since early 2019: death of our beloved father,...
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What did he mean by “It was a pleasure meeting you” ?

I introduced myself to a guy in my Bible study group at church after he was introduced to the rest of the group. We spoke and ended up sitting next to one another. He asked me what do I do for a living and we began to...
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How do I get closure on all this stuff that’s happened between us?

A girl got promoted and came back to my job and was in charge. We slowly started talking more and I found her annoying at first. She knew about my boy friend and I’ve mentioned we used to argue a lot and I think...
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Was she in love with me or did she actually really hate me?

There’s a girl I met about 2 years ago. She got a promotion and came back to my job and was in charge. We slowly started talking more and I found her annoying at first. She knew about my boy friend and I’ve mentioned...
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I slept with a guy at work and sort of have feelings for him, he’s ghosting me a bit and I have to see him at work?

So me and this guy hit it off at a few work parties and got on really well at work, we went for drinks a few weeks ago and slept together, he said he’s not looking for anything super serious but never say never, we agreed...
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Why would a guy make a joke about falling in love with me?

I have a crush on this guy. We have been slowly talking for a few months. He took me on a really nice date last night and we stayed up until 4 am just talking about everything family, our lives, our goals laughing it was...
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Am I overreacting about my boss?

I've been at my new job for about a month and a half and at first thought my boss was really nice and just a little high maintenance. Until about 2 weeks ago when I got the flu. She has a rule that you need to cover your...
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How do I let go of someone?

I'm asking this in regard to my ex-girlfriend. I met her 7 years ago when we were 14/15. We went to a thing called an Earthskills Rendezvous and met there. We bonded over being more reserved and awkward than the other...
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What should I know about white American women at the bar? How should a man approach them? What can I ask them? And why do they mostly dress revealing?

So I went to the bar today with a friend. This was my third time going. I turned 21 two months ago. He wanted to take psychedelic mushrooms before we left so I was designated driver. But when we were there I really didn’t...
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What should you not do when chased by a goose?

A warning to those who live in a place with lots of geese. I live near many ponds (man made along the complexes where I am) and normally the geese don't bother me. The ones by my home are medium sized to smaller Canadian...
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He sits next to me how do I get him to talk to me?

I have a new class with about 20 something of us. I sit in the front and There’s this attractive guy that always comes in and sits next to me or somewhat behind me. Today he sat really really close to me. Not super close...
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Yup it’s true your brain doesn’t fully develop till the age of 25

While most laws believe that at the age of 18, 16, or 17 in some states/countries people are considered adults and the legal age, neuroscience confirms your brain doesn’t actually develop fully till the age of 25. At 18,...
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Is the new guy in my class showing interest?

I have new classes this semester. We have a class with about 20 something of us. I sit in the front and There’s this attractive guy that always comes in and sits next to me or somewhat behind me. Today he sat really...
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Why doesn’t he want to have sex with me?

I dated a guy for a few months, a few months ago. We never had sex because I wanted to take things slowly. We’ve been spending time together again lately, he’s all for spending the night, cuddling, kissing, etc. but...
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Why do some guys have the fight or flight response around me?

I’m not dating them. They are acquaintances / know some sort of well. guy number one: immediately seemed flustered around me/ messed up his words. Then calmed down when started speaking to me. guy number two: had to meet...
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What were you bullied for?

Any bullied victim of their can share your stories and how it affected your life now. You can do it anonymously too. I'll start by people bullying me for being quite fortunate because i don't live in a first world...
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On a first date, if you have ever said "I just want to take things slowly," what did you mean?

I've heard that from a few ladies over the past fifty years and I think they meant "I'm not sure this is going anywhere so don't expect anything." But maybe not. Have you ever said that to a guy? If so, what did you mean...
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I've heard that from a few ladies over the past fifty years and I think they meant "I'm not sure this is going anywhere so don't expect anything." But maybe not. Have you ever said Show More
I've never said that to a guy
It meant I didn't have any expectations for dating
It meant I didn't want anything more than a platonic friendship then or in the future
It meant I had recently ended a relationship and wasn't sure I was ready for anything then
It meant I didn't want this guy to expect us to be having sex anytime soon
It meant I didn't want this guy expecting sex on a first date
It meant that if we started dating, I didn't want to date too often. . . like not more than once a week
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Should I try to kiss her again?

I've been on three dates with a girl I've known for around 3 or 4 months since I frequent where she works. We've hung out a bit as friends before and finally in December I decided to ask her on a date to which she eagerly...
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Does she like me or is it normal for a girl to behave like this when she’s not usually touchy with our other close friends?

if I like a girl and she acts in weird ways, what am I supposed to do? For example, she always leans on my shoulder and is really touchy (she isn’t with others). Back in October we went to the cinema and she rested her...
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