I slept with a guy at work and sort of have feelings for him, he’s ghosting me a bit and I have to see him at work?

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So me and this guy hit it off at a few work parties and got on really well at work, we went for drinks a few weeks ago and slept together, he said he’s not looking for anything super serious but never say never, we agreed to plan some stuff and hang out, I want to take it slowly too I just don’t want to be used. He’s been taking a long time to reply, and admits he’s an awful texter (this was the case before we met up anyway) and he’s back on dating sites, again we aren’t exclusive but it hurts! I have to see him and I don’t know how to act or what to do / say? I probably came across needy, however I never double texted him and let him have quite a bit of space, I’m just chatty (he knows this from real life) it all sucks!

I slept with a guy at work and sort of have feelings for him, he’s ghosting me a bit and I have to see him at work?
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