if I like a girl and she acts in weird ways, what am I supposed to do? For example, she always leans on my shoulder and is really touchy (she isn’t with others). Back in October we went to the cinema and she rested her head on my shoulder as well. Another time, we were at a party and i was walking by behind her and she grabs my hand and puts it around her waist while still holding it. The other day we were at a party and it was kinda cold so, out of the 5 people that we were talking to, she put her hand around MY arm to warm up and then put her hand in MY coat’s pocket. The same day she asked for my coat (which is weird bc there were tons of people that didn’t have their jackets/coats on so she could have asked any of our friends) and, as I wanted her to take a hint, I put it on for her and even closed it (also unbuttoned it for her when she had to leave). And also, we spent 10 minutes just sitting with her that had her head on my shoulder. These past days in school she does this at least once a day and today she kind of hugged me (she did say that she was eavesdropping a conversation but she didn’t need to hug me to do that since it was in the same exact spot) A couple of months ago she laid on me (sort of) during class. The other day we were walking together and she slowly put her hand around my arm when we were walking and she keeps on saying that she’ll come visit me to bother me in the city I’ll go to in 9 months. We were talking about a movie with another friend and i think i asked her if she wanted to come with us and she said yes under the condition that i go with her to see another movie as it comes out. I think I made it quite obvious that I like her at this point, but I can’t figure out if she does this just because she’s comfortable with me or if it’s because she likes me back. I also don’t know how to make her notice without telling her right off the bat since our friend that knows about this thought that she was the one that like me and not viceversa
Why do you go to such great lengths to ask us what she thinks and the meaning of her behavior when it would be so much easier to ask her
"Why do you hang onto me and why do you act as if there was something between us?"
This would solve your problem at once and you would have your reply within seconds.
Is it that you are afraid of her reply? Is it because you suspect that she likes you back? Is it because you want her to make the first move? Is it because you are too shy to set the record straight and to be disappointed or rejected?
From your descriptive, it looks as if she has a crush on you but is too shy to tell. Ask her and you will get your reply.
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Sounds like she likes you... she's giving you all these hints... make a move if that's what you want to do
it will come naturally to you when time is right. Be nice and friendly.
go for the kiss and see for yourself. risk is part of life
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i refuse to believe guys are THIS oblivious...
That’s generally an indication of attraction and interest
She may just want to use you as a simp/friend zone bench warmer.
can be but ask and if she likes she tell you that always the best way
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