Search Results: talking to my ex

Is it unhealthy to be too strict on principles, after breakup?

Just broke up with my partner after 6 years, the breakup was healthy and mature, no drama, not even disagreement of anything. We did it with respect, empathy, accountability, understanding and very supportive. We own 50%...

Kenngu

Xper 1 Age: 33

Is it a red flag to refer to ex as “We” in conversation?

In conversation when talking about the past/ telling a story that involves your ex. Do you mention We or just say I and leave the ex out of the story when talking to a new partner.

Gigimadid

Xper 4 Age: 32

In conversation when talking about the past/ telling a story that involves your ex. Do you mention We or just say I and leave the ex out of the story when talking to a new partner.

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Why does Ex send random meme on Instagram during no contact?

Been together with ex for 5 years on and off 3 times. However the break up only lasted about 1-2 months then we’ll be together everyday. Anyways last break up was last year around early summer but we were still seeing...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Ex asked was I talking to anyone new?

Ex asked was i talking to anyone new and i didn’t answer because it’s none of his business then i asked was he talking to anyone new and he responded with “no not at all “

WinCx3d

Xper 7 Age: 29

Girl's Behavior

If married woman talking with me about her husbands affair with him ex, what is meaning of it?

chiragvirani

Xper 6 Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

Why did my ex choose the other girl over me?

I was with my ex for 3 years and we had our issues and occasional fights. But when I found he was talking to another girl, he never told me about it and I co signed on an apartment with him just for him to choose to be...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Can two anxious attachment styles work or will the constant overthinking and worrying ruin the relationship?

First off I would say I'm an anxious style, I've always been with girls that are avoidant attachment, to me avoidants are people who are unlovable as they run from relationships and act like they don't care, where as...

Anonymous

(36-45)

How do I get my ex to start seeing me as a potential girlfriend?

Hi, I need advice. I (21F) dated a guy (21M) in 2023 for five months. We were exclusive, met each other’s friends and family, and he even called me “his woman,” but he never made it official. He started as a rebound...

lovelylia

Xper 6 Age: 25

I Want Something Serious with My Ex, But I’m Confused?

lovelylia

Xper 6 Age: 25

Is it wrong to feel the way that I do ?

So I met a guy a year ago we flirted , he was really memorable but I didn't get his number at that time. I went to that place for a year never ran into him again. Then just in December he shows up , we start talking like...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Guys, I met a man online and he is moving to my area because of me but we never met before?

So I met a man in his thirties online and we have been talking for the past 8 months. We are close in age. He is very sweet but he is also divorced with no kids but he had cheated on his ex-wife once he says. He also met...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girl's Behavior

Have I need used by her?

Inam introverted guy and never came into relationship, so this girl I met at my friends birthday party. SHE took my number for job purpose and we started talking. Went to movie together told her everything about me truly...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Why do exes spread hurtful lies after a breakup?

Sort of a continuation of my last question. I was catching up with one of my exes friends because we use to be friends. We all work in a mall so I saw him one day and just stopped to say hi. Someone had seen me speak to...

strawberrybaby3

Xper 6 Age: 36

Why would an ex be mad at their friends for talking to me or tell them not to get involved with me?

We broke up over a year ago and haven’t spoken in almost a year, why is it his business who I speak to?

strawberrybaby3

Xper 6 Age: 36

So would I be wrong to do this?

My ex called me and said he wants to visit me and basically Netflix and Chill despite him being "engaged" to a married woman. He said they have an open arrangement. I am completely over him and don't want to slide...

Simslover92

Influencer Age: 34

Would a girl pull away from having conversations if she secretly had someone else?

I've been talking to this girl. Sometimes we have our deep moments, sometimes we're more casual , but she seems interested in me. We talked about her past relationship with another guy and how we both have trust issues...

Anonymous

(45 Plus)

Why does he pull the carpet from under me?

I can’t work out what is going on … I have been with my boyfriend for 9 months.. everything is great however he gets really excited about doing things and taking me to places then changes his mind when I mention actually...

Finfin1981

Xper 5 Age: 45

Has your significant other's ex spouse contacted you about crazy stuff they did?

This whole thing has honestly been killing my mental health. This guy I am with has been incredible to me for a couple months. Then said he needed space because he was overwhelmed with being a full time single dad,...

Anonymous

(30-35)