Search Results: what's more appealing

Are you the type of woman that doesn't see the big deal with Brad Pitt or Channing Tatum? -- or a man who could pass on Scarlett Johansson or Eva Longoria? Do you find that you are pulled toward people that really aren't known for being conventionally good looking, but are because they have a je ne sais quoi about them? Like intelligence, humour, or some defining trait that makes them unique?

Years ago, one of my best friends told me she decided that Louis CK was sexy. She said, "I know it doesn't make sense. A balding ginger. No one gets that." But she said his confidence, humour, and the way he delivered his comedy was so appealing to her. It got me thinking, how many others truly do see beyond the traditional, wild good looks and see a sex appeal underneath what would be either average looks, or unconventional good looks.

All two of these terms - alpha & high value - usually go with the below summary

A man who may be wealthy who has multiple women purusing him at the same time. He usually entertains more than one woman at a time (e. g. cheats, etc.). He doesn't necessarily - and oftentimes doesn't - have a good personality (being shallow, pretenious, ignorant, rude, demeaning to others, etc.) and oftentimes only attracts women because of his money.

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A ladies man / or "player" is usually described in the below summary

A "ladies' man" is a term used to describe a man who is skilled in attracting and interacting with women. This person is often seen as someone who is highly appealing to women and enjoys their company. He is oftentimes entertaining more than one woman at a time.

I would like you guys input because I plan to move. So far the suburbs is more appealing to me. It seems safer and quiet yet many say a single person shouldn't live in the suburbs because there is a bunch of married couples.