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IMAGINE THIS SCENARIO: You and a boy have always been more than friends.. a quiet understanding, late-night talks, little gestures that blur the line. He finally says it outright and proposes something real. You care about him, but you’re not sure, so you ask for time.

That same week he goes out, drinks too much, and dials you. Your phone is already engaged with a call from another guy.. your best friend, nothing romantic, but it’s a long vent-session you don’t want to cut off. (Your guy) calls again. And again (10+ times). You see his name flash, your stomach knots, and you let it ring out because you’re not ready to face his voice right then.

He switches to text: IG, WhatsApp, short messages that get more urgent. You read them, guilt prickling, but you don’t answer. Confused and irritated, you block him everywhere like shutting a door to buy a minute of quiet.

Later the day you felt the guilt is louder than the fear. You unblock just enough to call. It rings, once, twice, and then voicemail. You wait for his call back... nothing comes.

The next day you hover over the unblock button. Part of you wants to explain: “I was on another call, I panicked.” Part of you freezes.. what if he leaves me on read? What if he says he’s done, that he’s moved on? That dread sits heavy, stealing sleep. You replay his silence, wonder if he’s already talking to someone else, feel the shame of your own avoidance.

"5 months have passed" (You were still waiting to fix) & beneath it all, another question: maybe you’re not just scared, maybe you really do need time and space to understand what you want before you try to fix what you broke.

Rick Pitino , Bill Self, Tom Izzo, John Calipari, Scott Drew

Scott Drew really only had 2 really good teams , Calopari relies on Good Freshman too much, Tom Izzo had two really good teams at start and won once. Bill Self is overrated and has health issues, Rick Pitino is getting old and gets in trouble a lot.

Calipari has always cheated and only won one Title. Izzo never cheats but will always be second fiddle to Michigan , Rick Pitino had others cheat and got in Trouble at Louisville and Hawaii. Bill Self has had teams that should have won and failed and he was investigated for cheating. Scott Drew turned down job at Kentucky before Portal/NIL disaster was created. Now he can't get players to come to Baylor because there is no money at Baylor. I bet now he would have taken job at Kentucky.

One and done players suit Calipari , Pitino, and Self more. Drew and Izzo are more traditional coached that did better with 4 year building.

I will rate who I think has best chance of winning again and the ones that won't.

Best chance to win

1) Bill Self has best chance if heath holds out , even though he has blown it with really good teams and was favored

2) Pitino , slight chance , He is in 70's now and I expect he will be out before 80's

3) Calipari slight chance. He relies on Freshman too much, but if he stops freshman and goes after JR and SR players maybe

4) Tom Izzo is getting old , and more traditional , I don;t see him ever winning it again at Mich St

5) Drew I don;t think can win another at Baylor