Search Results: what to say in a text

Am I making a huge mistake with him?

I met this boy the first week of school. He’s tall, tan, a tennis player, charming, polite, and has the most beautiful accent. It was impossible not to like him instantly. We met in the dorm hallway, talked, exchanged...

idontunderstandboys

Xper 1 Age: 22

Why does my boyfriend act mean, and cold towards me on the phone around his coworkers?

When ever he texts me, or is at one with me he’s sweet, and is more respectful. But at work he is cold and yells at me, and acts like a chore to say he loves me, like someone is forcing him to even when I’m being kind,...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Is she lying to me?

A girl drunk texts me, gets upset when i don’t compliment her, sends me a lot of videos talking on snap, brought up our marriage. Asks me about the future. But she says she isn’t into me, i know she has issues and what...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Why did he do this?

I met a guy off my school's discord. We got along well. We met up at the school's study room and he started talking about his favorite movie and he says we could watch movies together. It would be like and then stops. I...

MyWorld22

Xper 1 Age: 22

Family & Friends

Why do people ignore me when I talk to them or be nice to them?

So we got back from an awesome trip and when we were waiting for the others, my cousin’s girlfriends (let’s call her Madi) older sister (let’s call her Tori) was so snarky. She didn’t even stop to say hi or goodbye. My...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Should I block this friend and move on?

So I met a girl a little while ago on bumble bff on an app to make friends. I moved here almost a year ago and joined the app to make friends earlier in the year. I would say we’ve sporadically hung out once a month or...

Anonymous

(25-29)

What do you think is going on with her?

So I’m in a situationship with a woman who’s my age. And we’ve met online. And at first she didn’t really respond because she thought I wasn’t real, but she started loving me when she found out I was. She even bought me a...

Anonymous

(30-35)

What I do when my boyfriend tells me he needs space/time after arguing but says we aren’t broken up or seeing other people?

It’s been 2 weeks since the initial convo following an argument - he flips out and gets defensive if I so much as point out that he frequently disappears at night and won’t even text me to let me know he got home safely...

tennisnonpro123

Xper 1 Age: 23

Relationships

Why does he say he’s interested?

So I’ve been dating a guy that I work with but he’s in a different department. Things were going really good up until he stopped suddenly texting me outside of work. I do see him from time to time at work but it’s hard...

Jenny265

Xper 2 Age: 41

How Do I Look?

Date night confusion? Please help…?

I went on a date last night with a lady i met off tinder. I know its not the best place but yeah. We added eachother on facebook and started chatting. Long story short, i took her on a dinner date. We drunk 2 beers a...

jordanb8989

Xper 5 Age: 34

Why did he not call or have a bad pattern to follow-up calling?

Talking to someone for a month. Everything was honey moon at first where we talk everyday on call. Then he said he got super busy and rarely called me. I called him out on not following through for quality time while...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Girls, Have you ever sent an autocorrected text that went sideways and you had to call the person to tell them it's not what you meant?

I have! So I say, "autocorrect can go to hello!"

dougeats

Xper 7 Age: 25

Break Up & Divorce

Should I reach out? please HELP?

So I was seeing a guy, let’s call him D, and we had a strong connection with some really good moments. But our issues on time weren’t being resolved as quickly as I would have hoped, and it was giving me anxiety. So I...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I give my ex another chance or just block him?

So, my ex randomly reached out to me recently. We dated about 6 years ago for only 4 months. Back then, he broke up with me because his family thought he was too young for anything serious, and he felt pressured to end...

lover01__

Xper 2 Age: 25

Was my reaction to him justified?

I was dating a guy back in July/August when he dropped off. I dated others since, missed the excitement of him and figured I’d reach out for something casual. He said about going on a “proper date,” but he needed a couple...

Katarina88

Xper 5 Age: 38

Is it wrong he texted another women he knows darling?

I caught my long term partner texting another woman, thats helping him with a real estate deal, Darling. He knows her from his after work bar about 7 months ago. She texted her link with her pic and her credentials and he...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Have you ever been ghosted on a date? Have you ever ghosted anyone on a date?

When I say ghosted I basically am referring to a person who organises a date and then doesn't show up or you go on a date but the other person leaves you there waiting without an appearance, or even a text message to warn...

thegreenyogi

Guru Age: 35

Why did he say he need time to think in our situation?

We met online dating app & live in diff states. We click. He was consistent and went hard on attention the 1st week. We talked everyday. We told each other we love each other. he told me on his own he stopped taking to...

Anonymous

(30-35)