Why did he do this?

[MyWorld22]

I met a guy off my school's discord. We got along well. We met up at the school's study room and he started talking about his favorite movie and he says we could watch movies together. It would be like and then stops. I say Like what? He says It would be like you know. I said a date? No, we're just friends. I know after me hanging out with him he texted me saying he could hang out with me at the study room again.

[ohsheeT]

Ok so of course he like hanging out with you he likes doing things with you.

This is an old way that guys would do thing s

But now this generation is going to do it right in front of your face

He doesn't want a girl friend because there are other girls

He will do everything in his power to become friends with benefits. And he's working it to where it will be your idea.

If you to go out and do things you both pay for your own ..

What he want is everything a girl friend and boy friend what and do together. But with no comments

I think it's chicken shit. But if that's who he is then you have to make a choice.

He hoping that he plays the game good enough you will give in. But I guarantee it won't last long

[MyWorld22]

Ugh another guy who wants sex? What do you mean there are other girls?

[ohsheeT]

Guys his age. Dont want to be tied down. im sure he has other girls that he is telling him the same thing as you

[MyWorld22]

I'm confused because I see couples at my college. Why don't guys want to be tied down?

[Alex-Snow]

People have different ideas on what a date is. I would ask him again to watch a movie or even to study. Maybe ask him out for a cup of coffee. Can you follow him on socials to get to know more about him? How old is he?

[MyWorld22]

He's 23. He seems kind of weird. He said he wanted to rent a study room with me. I didn't feel like talking to him after that.

[Alex-Snow]

Rent a study room? That is kinda new. If he wants sex just go to one of your apartments or dorm room. When he said that did u assume he wanted some sex in the "rented room?

[MyWorld22]

No. I wouldn't jump to that since that's a public spot.

[Alex-Snow]

True but what about a private spot?

[MyWorld22]

Not my thing.

[Alex-Snow]

I understand

[MyWorld22]

He was just weird. I'm still perplexed.

[Alex-Snow]

Sounds like it. Maybe it is time to just put it in the past and take care of yourself socially, emotionally and sexually. The right guy will enter your life and he will be lucky to have that happen

[Nikki1989]

Based on his actions and his dodgy, immature attempt at communication, it's highly likely this person is interested in you romantically but is nervous about being rejected or making the first move official.

[MyWorld22]

Oh ok.

[spartan55]

He said that to cover himself because he probably assumed you only want to be friends.

[MyWorld22]

Makes sense.

[HisBro]

He seems to be confused and indecisive

[MyWorld22]

I suppose.

[Jmmmfi4]

Im not even sure I understand the question

[MyWorld22]

I was confused because he brought up movies and he said we could watch movies together. It would be like and then he went quiet and said nothing and I said like what and he said it would be like you know and I said a date? And he didn't really say anything after that.