Search Results: when a guy you like ignores you

Why are all my crushes ignoring me ever since I ignored my ex?

Ever since I ignored his last text none of the guys I have a crush on will even pay attention to me at all and this is the same time the other guys stopped giving me attention after I left the place. In seriousness did he...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

She mistreated me for years now she wants to reconnect. What would you do?

Long story short many years ago I asked a colleague out and she rejected me. I was okay with that and not even awkward, but she started to mistreat/bully/gaslight me and I couldn't react because if I did I was the...

Robocod

Xper 3 Age: 34

Relationships

Is he being inconsiderate?

bigdreamer1

Xper 5 Age: 34

This last week I took off 3 days of work & we went to visit his best friend and his wife. I had made plans for a happy hour with a friend last night & Wed afternoon he told me I needed

This last week I took off 3 days of work & we went to visit his best friend and his wife. I had made plans for a happy hour with a friend last night & Wed afternoon he told me I needed to go to a client dinner with him so I cancelled my original plans. We are hosting the duo we just went & visited this last weekend since they are coming into town for a wedding. Last night on our way to dinner he lets me know he’s going to a guys night tonight & so I reach out to one of my girlfriends to hang out. Today he asks if there’s any way I can leave work early & I do. I let him know I can & that i’m running 2 quick errands first. I get home & he’s playing xbox and asks me to blow him. I the comment & start doing chores. After I have been home for 45 minutes he comes to me and starts undoing his pants &gesturing to give him a bj, I just stare. He mouths how I never want to “take care of him” and walks off. I tell him the reason I am not is because he is going to be gone all night with the boys &when I come home he’s playing games with the boys for 45 min so I don’t feel obligated to serve him when he’s not considering the time with me. He states he isn’t going to fight with me and I told him I’m not fighting just telling you why I’m not giving you a bj. He goes to lay in bed &I go lay beside him while he scrolls social for about 20 min before turning away from me &acting like he is going to sleep. I get up to feed the dogs and go to sit by the pool and within 5 min he is leaving the house, not saying a word to me, then texts noticeably annoyed that he will be gone until boys night starts. This is somewhat a common occurrence when he doesn’t get his way, he’ll ignore me even if I try to talk to him he won’t respond. I just don’t see why he doesn’t get we have &are about to spend a lot of time with his people &I’d like to think he’d take advantage of our alone time, not use it to continue to spend with others and only give me attention if intimacy is involved. General thoughts?

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Guy's Behavior

Guys used to stare at me but now stopped?

He stared at me for 8 months but i did not notice him until he went to check my receipt. after this I stared at him back when he stared at me but now he just ignore me? i don’t really understand? why would he stare...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Dating

Girls, Is it possible for a guy to be too hot/desirable to date? If so, what traits does that guy have?

Everyone has their problems, but I have to think that there are certain guys who women (at least, most women) would look at think there's no way I could lock down a guy like that . I know that there are really beautiful...

ProbablyClueless

Guru Age: 33

Guy's Behavior

I need guidance on how to handle this?

Hello so there is a guy who I met in my class. He seemed nice and very friendly to everyone and he still is friendly to everyone but something happened that made me wonder what should I do. So the conversation of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

I don't mean to generalize, but why are men mean to me?

I have been through a lot with men in my past relationships and even with my father, so I know all of my mistrust comes from these experiences. Online dating has made me depressed and as you will read men in public reject...

Sweetascandy1990

Xper 6 Age: 36

Guy's Behavior

Guy friend doesn't see me as a potential girlfriend, doesn't make plans to see me but treats me as a therapist etc. What should I do?

So I have a guy friend who lives in a different city than me. He has some trouble with his everyday life, we're both 21, I'm studying medicine and he has no idea what to do with his life - he changed his major but still...

baddiska

Xper 4 Age: 22

Flirting

Girls, Why Shy Guys Often Get Ignored in Flirting Even When They’re Worth Noticing.

There are a lot of genuinely good men out there. Thoughtful, respectful, emotionally steady. The kind of men who aren’t looking to impress for attention but to connect sincerely. Many of them are shy and because of that,...

This guy followed me on insta in 2018 because of location tags. He seemed normal and inboxed me and then I found out through a friend he’s a grifter who tries to find wealthy women to date - I immediately wasn’t...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Guy's Behavior

Why would a guy stare/lock eyes with a girl but then ignore her?

So confusing and he does this regularly.

Anonymous

(25-29)