Am I overthinking this scenario?

[Anonymous]

So this guy I've been seeing has been busy moving and such and like no big deal with that he talked about his lack of response for that and just not having enough time to respond. I finally told him last night like what I've been feeling cause like you know getting left on opened and or just downright ignored may seem like a lack of interest on that part. I just if anything wanted closer and like to let him know to see where I stand.

Anyways I told him I liked him and that that I wasn't sure what he exactly felt anymore besides for the moving part if he was seeing someone else and such and like he just said "no he's moving and found a place" but like it never answered my question really and he's been working today so we've had some conversation but it like avoided my question and like I don't know I mentioned something during the weekend and he said it was okay but to respond to his response, I asked if we could hang out soon and he said I don't know. So again he's moving so am I just overthinking?

[spartan55]

Poor strategy to accuse the person you're dating of seeing someone else. 🙄 That's like bug repellant to guys.

[Asker]

Well I'm just a little confused cause we've barely talked in like 3 weeks is why I'm stressing but yes poor strategy but 9 times outta 10 it's always right. Unfortunately just a habit I picked up on after getting cheated on and the guy beforehand saying he wasn't seeing anyone else and such and I don't know I'm clingy and Unfortunately too attached , it's ass 😪

[spartan55]

9/10? I really doubt that. Do what you want, but it's a bad idea to default to that. Sometimes they just aren't into you. Women never handle rejection well so they try to make themselves feel better by claiming it must be another woman.

[spartan55]

So all guys are cheaters... got it...🙄

[Asker]

I never said all guys are cheaters, why do you gotta get defensive, it's an experience that happened to me, that's why I'm hesitant and yeah my 9/10 is because i pick poor choice in people 🤷‍♀️. Most are just immature, and both parties at that. I don't want to claim it to be another woman but that's just what my brain automatically assumes , romance is dead and I'm sorry that people don't want to talk to one person at a time. That's all why I asked him, so I could set a boundary line you know? It's also there's an age gap I'm gonna be 20 and he just turned 25. Could have found someone else you know?

[Danny_dan92]

What exactly do you want him to say? Honestly you sound clingy as fuck. Relax take a deep breath

[Asker]

Yeah unfortunately I get attached way to easy and I'm just overworked with college and so I inadvertently I guess project onto him and such. If that makes sense , it's unfair to him but I don't know I just hate not knowing either

[Danny_dan92]

Like I said, relax

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

If you have to ask if you’re overthinking, you probably are

[Asker]

Fair enough, it just sucks not knowing I guess ,, leaves many thoughts and such you know

[CupcakeTheDestroyer]

The ball’s out of your court, there’s nothing else you can do right now

[In_Trance]

Yes you are

[Asker]

So just take a step back cause I don't know i just don't like not knowing I guess

[Anonymous]

Yeah!

[Asker]

Whew, just gotta take a step back then? 😅