Am I overthinking this?

[Anonymous]

So me and my new boyfriend were cuddling last night when we finally admitted we were into each-other. It was a huge leap from us being best friends to actually now dating. I told him to take things slow and he agreed and sorry also trigger warning (I told him to in the future be mindful of me bc I was touched a lot before without consent which is why I am/was afraid of a relationship). He said he will 100% keep that in mind and I trust him completely as he’s always been more than respectful. This morning when we were waking up and kinda talking and shifting around in bed he went tu put his arm around my lower rib cage/stomach I assume and he (I assume accidentally) brushed the underside of my right breast or at least got too close to it. I do have small boobs (A cup) and was laying down w no bra so I could’ve been pretty much flat and he maybe didn’t notice. When it happened again I told him jokingly like “ur almost brushing my boobs” and he instantly said “huh what I’m sorry.” And confirmed he was going for a hug near the lower chest/stomach but not wanting to touch me. I believe him but however I wanted to ask if I am overthinking this?

[Light909090]

Yep 👍
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[Anonymous]

Yeah definitely overthinking, if you’re basically flat chested lying down then there is no way of him knowing that he was near there half asleep, I hope you get over being touched because he is someone else and guys like to touch and caress their woman to show affection and makes us feel good

[Asker]

Thank you for this answer

[Opinion Owner]

You’re welcome

[spartan55]

Overthinking it how?