Most Helpful Guy
holy mama! are you tired? because I think you wrote the novel.
Most Helpful Girl
I think that maybe he has a lot on his plate what with him having a son as well as having schol. There is a very good chance that he truly does find you important, but he simply is very busy. You are coming on very strong, especially since he has a son. Children aren't bad for relationships, however at the age range of the 20's you're more likely to want to go out and do things like party or have more time alone with him. With his son, which should hopefully be his top priority, he can't do that as much as you can. He may therefore feel very intimidated. If you have something to ask him or say to him I would suggest saying it in person. People can often misunderstand what you're trying to say over a phone.