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27F, I just don’t get why I’ve never had luck with dating. I’ve only used dating apps and while they have a bad rep I know they work for a lot of people too. I’ve been told im cute but when I say I never get approached by guys in person im not kidding. Everyone I knew back in HS and college talked about getting approached by guys. I’ve never had a LTR only dated someone for a few months back in my early twenties. Dating apps I use very casually and have kind of lost interest. The same way all the other women I know had dating happen so naturally for them I feel it should be the same for me which is why I refuse to approach guys moving fwd (with apps that’d be me messaging first). I used to message first here and there but stopped. I get matches on the apps and getting dates aren’t the issue, it’s more along the lines of not attracting the guy I’d like or there’s lack of connection/things fizzle out/guys only want a hook up.

I'm mostly interested in what men's behavior toward this as I am straight and hoping to find someone. but anyone else is also welcome to answer incase someone else is also curious to know what others think (men women whomever)

SO: if you were interested in someone and then find out they have bunions, would you be so turned off to just find someone else?

How important is it for women to have straight feet?

I read a lot about bunion surgeries and I almost had it done few years ago and I'm happy I didn't because a lot of people who have done it claim they can't move their feet, have pain or can't hike or run properly without having discomfort and pain.

bunions in my opinion are so ugly and I wish I didn't have them but I do. If I'm ever barefoot, people notice it right away, it feels so down putting. I feel sad even kids notice it.

so how much does this affect a person in reference to dating someone and then seeing they have this, rather run away? because ew?

this is basically how it tends to look, some people have it worse than others, some people have other problems along with this and looks extra awful, I've seen photos. I only have this so at least I'm thankful I don't have extra deformities or fungus but this alone is still depressing

I realize asking strangers online will not solve my very real dilemma, but I thought I would anyway just to see what you all say.

Ultimately the choice is mine and only mine.

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I recently broke up with my boyfriend because he is indecisive on having children. Because of a previous marriage he is now traumatized to get married and have kids again. We love each other but I know I want marriage and kids.

Since I recently broke up with him, we still talk everyday and he told me he's thinking about kids more than he ever has before and how he doesn't want to lose me...

Wellll... to get over him quicker and distract myself because I'm so distraught over this breakup, I started talking to a man I briefly talked to before I got serious with my boyfriend. This man wants marriage, kids the whole shebang. We get along pretty well and I do like him.

The problem? Should I hold off with this new man until I'm absolutely sure my boyfriend has made up his mind about kids or should I just accept he's indecisive and start this new relationship with someone who actually wants what I want?

And no, no matter how many of you advise I take a break from dating altogether, I won't do that.

#relationshipadvice

#breakup