I’ve been dating this guy for 9 months now. I’ve tried multiple times to have NO contact with him. I’ve blocked him, changed my #, blocked him on social media. He ends up showing up at my house & my work. I KNEW there was red flags. That's why I tried to cut him off because I knew certain stuff wasn’t normal. He kept calling me NO CALLER ID begging me for another chance. Since the beginning he’s been SO jealous it’s ridiculous (& I don’t even understand WHY. He’s honestly probably the most handsomest guy I’ve dated. He’s sexy, great smile, nice body, zero tattoos unlike me, dresses great & has a nice car & motorcycle). I mean I’m not ugly either but I’m not a jealous person. Anyways These last 7 months have been a roller coaster. It’s constant hot & cold. One day he’s in love, the next he hates me. We could be having a great time & BOOM! I’m a wh*re & a h*e & a b**ch. I even heard him referring to me as the “puta” to his mom on the phone. Mind you, I’ve done a lot for this man. Every time he’s been in need, I’ve helped. I have my own place, he’s here probably at least 4 nights out the week. (He rents a room somewhere). He shows up out of nowhere. He goes through all my stuff, even smells my panties. He doesn’t like being around any of my friends. 1 day he loves to be around my daughter, the next day it’s “why does every chick have to have kids”. He says he doesn’t want a relationship but is almost always with me & is with me every single weekend. He constantly calls me a wh*re & the B word & a h*e & I’ve never cheated on him or did anything. I have a good heart & I think I’m too nice. He quit his job & now I find myself helping him with $ all the time & yet I still get called a b*tch. If I miss his phone call then I’m probably “f*cking someone”. I don’t understand why someone’s treats people like that. If u don’t like me, then leave me alone. I don’t call him or text him at all. He does all the calling, texting, showing up. I just want to move on & be happy again…
Narcissist? Sociopath?
