Narcissist? Sociopath?

[Daisy_xo4]

I’ve been dating this guy for 9 months now. I’ve tried multiple times to have NO contact with him. I’ve blocked him, changed my #, blocked him on social media. He ends up showing up at my house & my work. I KNEW there was red flags. That's why I tried to cut him off because I knew certain stuff wasn’t normal. He kept calling me NO CALLER ID begging me for another chance. Since the beginning he’s been SO jealous it’s ridiculous (& I don’t even understand WHY. He’s honestly probably the most handsomest guy I’ve dated. He’s sexy, great smile, nice body, zero tattoos unlike me, dresses great & has a nice car & motorcycle). I mean I’m not ugly either but I’m not a jealous person. Anyways These last 7 months have been a roller coaster. It’s constant hot & cold. One day he’s in love, the next he hates me. We could be having a great time & BOOM! I’m a wh*re & a h*e & a b**ch. I even heard him referring to me as the “puta” to his mom on the phone. Mind you, I’ve done a lot for this man. Every time he’s been in need, I’ve helped. I have my own place, he’s here probably at least 4 nights out the week. (He rents a room somewhere). He shows up out of nowhere. He goes through all my stuff, even smells my panties. He doesn’t like being around any of my friends. 1 day he loves to be around my daughter, the next day it’s “why does every chick have to have kids”. He says he doesn’t want a relationship but is almost always with me & is with me every single weekend. He constantly calls me a wh*re & the B word & a h*e & I’ve never cheated on him or did anything. I have a good heart & I think I’m too nice. He quit his job & now I find myself helping him with $ all the time & yet I still get called a b*tch. If I miss his phone call then I’m probably “f*cking someone”. I don’t understand why someone’s treats people like that. If u don’t like me, then leave me alone. I don’t call him or text him at all. He does all the calling, texting, showing up. I just want to move on & be happy again…

[bean2k21]

I've been dating this person for a very long time at this point. I've attempted on numerous occasions to have NO contact with him. I've hindered him, changed my #, impeded him via web-based entertainment. He winds up appearing at my home and my work. I KNEW there was warnings. That is the reason I attempted to remove him since I realized specific stuff wasn't typical. He continued calling me NO CALLER ID beseeching me for one more opportunity. Starting from the starting he's been SO envious it's crazy (and I don't figure out WHY. He's really likely the most handsomest person I've dated. He's provocative, extraordinary grin, pleasant body, zero tattoos dissimilar to me, dresses perfect and has a decent vehicle and cruiser). I mean I'm not revolting either yet I'm not a desirous individual. In any case These most recent 7 months have been a thrill ride. It's steady hot and cold. One day he's infatuated, the following he can't stand me. We could be living it up and BOOM! I'm a wh*re and a h*e and a b**ch. I even heard him alluding to me as the "puta" to his mother on the telephone. Bear in mind, I've done a great deal for this man. Each time he's been out of luck, I've made a difference. I have my own place, he's here likely no less than 4 evenings out the week. (He leases a room some place). He appears all of a sudden. He goes through the entirety of my stuff, even scents my undies. He could do without being around any of my companions. 1 day he loves to be around my girl, the following day it's "the reason does each chick must have children". He says he doesn't need a relationship yet is quite often with me and is with me each and every end of the week. He continually considers me a wh*re and the B word and a h*e and I've never undermined him or did anything. I have a decent heart and I believe I'm excessively great. He quit his place of employment and presently I wind up assisting him with $ constantly and yet I actually get called a b*tch. In the event that I miss his call, I'm likely "f*cking somebody". I fail to see the reason why somebody's deals with individuals like that. In the event that u could do without me, then, at that point, let me be. I don't call him or text him by any means. He does all the calling, messaging, appearing. I simply need to continue on and be cheerful once more…

[ChrisMike1919]

This relationship is sick. He's a sick twisted guy. Dump him quick before he'll drown you into his sickness.

[Anonymous]

Maybe I watch too much true crime, but everything you listed here are signs of someone who literally won’t let you go without harming you, and that is absolutely something to consider and be afraid of. Sure you could write it off as “he wouldn’t do that” “that’s not him he’s just this or that”, but that frame of mind has put millions of women in true danger, or in the hospital if they even make it out alive. Please detach yourself from this guy, even if it’s with a restraining order. Genuinely sounds like a man you should run from.

[Guy13]

Wow. Who know where this would go professional assistant woukd be good

[007kingifrit]

long story short, call the police, and stop dating ethnic guys

[Iron_Man]

This is extremely complicated

[Anonymous]

He is dangerous.