Search Results: finding the one

Lost my hair to an uncommon type of alopecia as a teen. Shaved what’s left since. Now 26. I pull off bald well but now developed a type of eczema that affects the scalp-you know which is bald. This can take months to settle down. So it’s either shaved scalp with fiery red patches OR a wig.

I began wearing full male wigs and honestly they look amazing, one is about $500 and lasts 6-12 months. I must stress these look very real. I often see people claim ‘all wigs look fake’ but you only notice the bad ones. Decent quality ones are great.

Anyway met many other men and women who all wear them as well through the hair dresser who supplies them and am finding it’s really common even for guys. I’m just curious how women will view it dating. I wouldn’t hide it at all and would share by the 2nd or 3rd date so only a couple weeks into talking to someone. Honestly I view them as no different than makeup or extensions etc.

AGAIN I MUST STRESS I DONT HIDE THE FACT I WEAR THEM. I honestly just kind of like having styles beyond just shaved again.

After all, now I'm 30, and 30s, while I'm being mindful of weight gain and aging - I for one am not 20s anymore from this year - I for one aren't out there plowing the field or getting married or adopting offspring or getting a pet either lol - so I for one wonder how other 30s plus folks are finding the aging process. It's not a spritely 20s anymore, is it? 🍋💛