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This question was inspired by another recent question from a female who was hurt because her man said he would want a paternity test if they had kids. Whether or not most people realize it, paternity fraud is very common today. Most studies have shown about one in ten children is raised by a man who thinks he is the biological father but is not.

Should it become the norm for mothers to just offer to do a paternity test without being asked, so the father is not put in that awkward position of having to asking for one or wonder for the rest of his life whether he is the actual father? It would be a gesture of love that shows she is loyal and appreciates her man’s commitment and trust and doesn’t want him to ever have a reason to question hers.

Should this become the norm? Or would women be against it to show solidarity with the many mothers who cheated and hid it from their husbands, children, and the real fathers?

"Living together" or "cohabiting" means that either one or both of you gave up your previous living quarters and moved in with the other, so that if there was an argument, you couldn't get in your car and go home. . . because you were already home. And it covers couples that were married as well as unmarried couples. But it doesn't include relationships in which you would spend weekends at her apartment.

I have lived with six women over the span of 53 years of dating. The first was Pat, a girl who came in and out of my life over a period of decades. Ultimately, she cheated on me with another female. Yes, I believe that part of the infidelity was prompted by her bisexuality. We lived together for a total of five years.

Next was Evelyn, 11 years older than me, a rebound from Pat and a horrible choice for me. We lived together for about five months. She moved out after confessing that she cheated on me with my former roommate.

Debby and I lived together for 15 years, Lynn and I for 5 years, and another bad decision and I lived together for about 2 years.

Helen and I started living together three years ago. It is the best relationship I have ever had.

If I could go back in time. . . three of the first five should have never happened. Fortunately, I've learned from my mistakes.

What is your history of living with partners? Any regrets? Lessons learned?

He had her sign an NDA... one wonders if she was paid undo monies to keep quiet. That be like... paying her off to keep quiet, no? Who knows what she knows. Shouldn't we be investigating this potential travesty of justice... we need to know what Marla knows so we can make a sound decision. Paying her off and hiding behind an NDA... smells bad.

It's rumored she was cheating on him, but we don't have the facts do we?

FACTS!

https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Marla_Maples

Where are all the investigative journalists on GAG? Isn't this important information to your life so you can make a sound decision?

Men... never go for your secretary... lots of risk. Women, stop baiting rich guys... grow up... and cover up for that matter.

For that matter... think of all the NDA's signed by corporations and doing "deals"... and then there's monies exchanged. WTF? God only knows what kind of shenanigans are going on and being kept quit. I know for a fact someone committed suicide at the company I worked for and it was covered up... payoffs! What authority do we report such possible criminal activities and payoffs to, since it's clear out govt is about rightful justice?

Note: Post contains lots of truth but as well... scarcasm. Author claims no responsibility for how you interpret it.