Search Results: how can i tell if my boyfriend is cheating

Dumped over text and don’t know how to feel?

My boyfriend and I have been together for about five months, tomorrow would've been six. For the past few weeks he had been acting very strange and distant. Every little mistake I made, he argued with me and broke up with...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Relationship struggle?

Let me briefly tell you my story. I have been in a relationship for almost 2 years with a boy and we get along very well with some minuses. Before we were together, a man on Facebook used to write to me and strangely I...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Guy's Behavior

I think I wanna break up with my friend. But I'm not sure how to do it, and I'm not sure if I should?

I cannot condense this story. But I'll try. (It's still very very long) Me and my best friend have known eachother for a year, when we first met online we started dating and that lasted 8m. We broke up bc he wanted to try...

Oviiii

Xper 2 Age: 19

Girl's Behavior

My friend made up a rumor that I’m a lesbian and she thinks I like her just because I confronted her once about being rude to me with her boyfriend?

I’m contemplating completely dropping her. She sleeps with every single man and cheats on her own boyfriend. And she thinks I’m weird because I don’t date multiple guys at once (who even has time for that?). I don’t...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Dating

Is my boyfriend over the relationship?

I haven’t talk to my boyfriend for the past few days since Wednesday. He called to hangout Thursday but I couldn’t do it I was tired. He called me on Saturday for us to hang out but told me he will let me know if he will...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Break Up & Divorce

Should I go with the break up?

For the longest in our relationship my boyfriend has been accusing me of cheating and messing with other guys. I don't talk to other guys, barely go out and im really shy. We've only been together for 5 months and about...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

My boyfriend cheated in the beginning of our relationship. How to get over it?

Me (21) and my boyfriend (23) have been together for almost a year now. Couple of months ago i found out my boyfriend hasn't been completely honest with me, as he claimed to be. I caught him lying to me about a lot of...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Take a hot girl summer while in a relationship?

started seeing a guy became close friends with benefits for two months. his ex girlfriend (one he thought to marry) came back. told him to go for it, he did, we remained friends but then I left as a friend to make sure...

kayjay17

Xper 2 Age: 31

started seeing a guy became close friends with benefits for two months. his ex girlfriend (one he thought to marry) came back. told him to go for it, he did, we remained friends but

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Relationships

How do you build trust and comfort to get your boyfriend to open up who has been hurt in the past?

I've been dating my boyfriend for a year now. The other day I asked him does he feel that he can be honest to me about anything and talk about anything. He told me no he doesn't. He said he feels that women take the...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Advice on trusting my boyfriend and not losing my sanity all the time?

Hey everyone, I’ve been with my boyfriend for almost 4 years now. From what I know he is a great guy. We have such a great time and I’ve never had a question where he was or what he was doing meaning he always told me or...

Cass510

Xper 5 Age: 29

Family & Friends

What would you do if your best friend looked up Boyfriend without asking?

I have known my boyfriend since last April we started off as friends and started dating in October. My best friend has been so damaged that she trusts no guy her friend's date. She keeps telling me to watch out for red...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Relationships

Am I right for wanting to end my engagement/relationship?

Anonymous

(30-35)

Me (29M) and my fiancé (29F) have been dating for 3 years and been engaged for a little over 6 months. We have wedding plans for July. About a year into our relationship she cheated on

Me (29M) and my fiancé (29F) have been dating for 3 years and been engaged for a little over 6 months. We have wedding plans for July. About a year into our relationship she cheated on me with her ex boyfriend. She told me about it and I told her I could forgive her for it if she stopped talking to him and let him go. Our relationship was great after that and we were both very happy, we got then got engaged after dating for about 2.5 years Anyways about 5 months ago I saw a notification pop up on her phone and it was from him. Turns out that they had been talking daily for who knows how long. We got into a big fight at the time and I told her that I did not want him hanging out in the background of our relationship and she agreed. Then a couple months later I heard his voice on a Snapchat message she was listening to and that turned into another fight, insisted to me that their relationship is just platonic and she’s not trying to get with them. She said she can’t go without talking to him and didn’t see what the problem was as long as they weren’t hanging out. I was not happy about it but agreed that as long as they weren’t hanging out I was ok with it. These last two months have been increasingly hard for us and I feel that there is always tension between us. Intimacy between us has pretty much become non existent. Multiple times the subject of her ex boyfriend has been brought up and caused us to fight. I don’t know that I can marry her knowing that he is still in the picture. Anytime I try to talk with her about working on our relationship she completo shuts down and gives me very little input. I’ve tried so hard to be ok with it but the reality of the situation is that I’m not because I feel that she is still emotionally invested in him and holding out giving emotion to me in our relationship. I just can’t rationally understand why she would want to maintain 24/7 contact with him texting and snap chatting every day when we are supposed to be getting married.

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Dating

Please help! What can I do in this situation with this girl?

I really don't know what to do here. This girl i like found out her boyfriend is cheating on her and wants to end her relationship with him. She told me it on Friday and today she brought it up again and was even more...

Anonymous

(30-35)

Break Up & Divorce

Will we come back from this?

To preface this, my boyfriend and I are in high school. We go to different schools. We’ve been dating for about 5 months and have been officially girlfriend/boyfriend for a little over two. Though this is not a long time,...

Anonymous

(18-24)

Dating

Why do only women who are in relationships show interest in me?

It happened to me a lot of times that I flirted with some women, I showed interest in them, they showed some interest in me, I asked them out, they accepted. And then during the date they told me they were in a...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

How to deal with boyfriend with terrible time management?

My boyfriend is really kind but he's TERRIBLE WITH TIME! He never remembers my work days, randomly disappears for the entire day, parents were dragging him around, then he saw friends, did homework, forgot to tell me etc....

Anonymous

(25-29)

Girl's Behavior

What dose it mean if a girl want to do thing with me and then she said she have a boyfriend?

what dose it mean if a girl want to do thing with me and then she said she have a boyfriend? she said she want me take her to a mall and go see a movie and she ask me if I kiss her and make out with her. I said yes. she...

mattclark242

Xper 6 Age: 28

Dating

Was I wrong for calling him out at looking at a girl to teach him a lesson on accusing me?

My boyfriend, now ex, would constantly accuse me of cheating subtly all the time. I told him that I don’t like those jokes because I believe he meant it. He told me he needs to see that he can trust me but I never have...

Anonymous

(25-29)

Relationships

Should I break up with him?

I have been with my boyfriend for over a year and a half now. We are long distance (he was in my country when we met) since then he travelled for study's and now an internship. There is a seven year age gap. I find some...

Anonymous

(36-45)

Break Up & Divorce

Will he regret hurting me, even after I acted crazy?

My boyfriend got with me and I could tell he was very scared to have a relationship. He would constantly think I’d cheat or make subtle comments of me cheating and had a huge issue with me being close friends with a male...

Anonymous

(25-29)