Will we come back from this?

[Anonymous]

To preface this, my boyfriend and I are in high school. We go to different schools. We’ve been dating for about 5 months and have been officially girlfriend/boyfriend for a little over two. Though this is not a long time, we have a pretty strong relationship, and I feel that I love him. Saturday night I went to a party with my girl friends. He didn’t go because he had other plans. I got extremely drunk (9 drinks in an hour in a half, I’m a 5’3 female for reference), and I kissed two guys. I don’t know or remember how it happened. It was just a peck for both guys, but nonetheless I cheated on him. As soon as I got home, I called him and told him what had happened. He was very upset and ended the call. The next day he wouldn’t talk to me until the evening where he called and said he couldn’t continue the relationship. I called him later that night and we talked for two hours. We were both really upset. He said that he lost all of his trust in me. That he didn’t know how to continue. But we decided to go on a break instead of completely breaking up. Can we come back from this? I truly love him, I do. I’ll do anything to stay with him. I’m even giving up drinking. I just don’t know where to go from here. He said he needs to talk to some more people before he officially decides if we’re done or not.

[Guy13]

All one can do is ask for forgiveness, repent, and ride it out. I think he is a fool not to maintain relationship with one like yourself. It will be interesting to see if he is a man or a boy. Do not push him and let him come into his decision in his own time. Chill out and let Valentine's Day work it out. Hope it comes together as you wish !!

[Asker]

Thank you!

[Anonymous]

All you can do is ask for forgiveness. Other than that it’s up to him. I’d be mad as well. You know you would be too if he had done what you did. Honestly to drink 9 drinks in that short of a time says a lot about you. For one you’re under age. Two if you’re so drunk you don’t recall what happened then in addition to you being under age maybe you shouldn’t be drinking at all even if you were of age. Shows you aren’t responsible. I couldn’t trust you again, we’d be done.