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A bit of background information

I'm 32, currently in the BSN track for Nursing as my 2nd bachelors degree & this is my 1st back in school after so long. My 1st degree was in Sociology, graduated in 2016. I had teaching jobs after that and I still love teaching but due to certain circumstances I've decided to pursue Nursing since it was one of my passions that I was interested in. I was a teacher at a private school 2 years ago & I've had a tutoring job & daycare job last year. I still have the daycare job now but its on call since I'm back to school again. I always love to help people & have been researching about nursing jobs a lot lately so hence why I'm pursing it now.

Anyways, since I already had my 1st bachelors, I don't need to worry about general education credits since it's been waived but I do need pre-requisite classes such as Anatomy & Physiology, Inorganic Chemistry, & Organic Chemistry and to pass entrance exam before I go into Nursing school. However, I'm not doing so well in Organic Chemistry I may need to repeat which is fine with me but you're only allowed 3 repeats for pre-requisite classes. I already had 1 repeat from my 1st BA degree & that was for statistics class. So I'm down to 2 repeats. But now my advisor is also telling me that if I do pass the class with a "C" it needs to be a high "C" like 75 or higher otherwise I would have to repeat it. My anatomy theory class I'm doing fine in but my anatomy lab class I'm worried that it may be a low "C". My plan is to re-take inorganic Chemistry next fall since I'm under americorp grant but if I withdraw then I need to pay out of pocket but advisor suggests spring since its still fresh in my mind.

Anyways, I'm just wondering if I should continue with BSN generic track for Nursing degree with my plan to repeat chemistry next Fall or drop this since I already have a degree but work on my masters for counseling or should I study Social work or LPN or Medical assistant instead. Please help

2 years ago I gave an acquaintance my phone number, which is something I already hate doing. For most calls he would either end the phone call after a few minutes to "see why 'she' is calling" or talk with people off the phone.

Important Side Note: He told me about a planned group outing with our mutuals and "someone else." I found out through social media that "someone else" was a girl I've seen around but never really spoke to. I suspect that "she" is the person he would cut our phone calls short to talk to. I thought it was really weird of him to hide that she was on the trip, especially since I recognized her; I literally don't care who he dates because I was only platonically interested in him at best. This incident, however, made me feel like being his friend was not a good idea.

One day, I told him that he should delete my number if he calls me again and exhibits poor phone etiquette. Like clockwork, the next time he called, he cut the call short because he couldn't understand why "she" was calling him. I told him to never call me again and promptly stopped answering calls and texts.

As time went on, he and "she" developed a relationship that he posted about. "She" recently had his baby. I was hanging out with some mutuals and he came around. I acknowledged him but cut my time short because I didn't want to spoil the mood. Since then he has been watching my social media stories, DMing me, and calling me. I have not responded.

A part of me feels bad for my lack of communication with him, but I also don't understand WHY he's trying to talk to me. A part of me wants to ask him why he's trying so hard to engage me when he should be tending to his girlfriend and his baby, and a part of me wonders if he's just trying to work on being friends. I personally do not trust this man and would rather he would accept that I told him to leave me alone 2 years ago than pursue a friendship.

WDYT?

I understand the words themselves. But when a guy tells you he’s fresh out of a long term relationship and wasn’t looking for a serious relationship, but then wants to see you everyday and goes out of his way for you to bring you little gifts and do nice things for you etc, it signals to me that they do want a relationship because that’s how they’re acting. And then they express this sentiment, it’s really confusing for me because I am empathetic, but it’s also like I don’t know what to do about that. You are choosing to see me and behave like this, so I’m going with it. But you can’t say to someone I feel strongly about you so I’m pursuing you but also this isn’t what I wanted. Or if you do say it, I need to know what that means for how I should be acting around you and engaging in the relationship, esp if he isn’t pulling back and is continuing to want to see me. I don’t know how to feel about being with someone who both expresses intense feelings and is super attentive to me, but also says it’s not what he wanted.