This girl asked if I said something to her when I didn't and it was in restaurant. She keeps reasoning to talk to me and looks every time I pass by?

[he-takes-a-part]

How shall I pursue her in such circumstances. We are staying in a hostel where this happened and she is staying with her friends in dorm downstairs.

[Oliverlogan263]

Here's what I'd do:

Sounds like this girl is definitely feeling you, otherwise why she keep making excuses to talk and peepin you all the time? I say next time you see her in passing, smile and be like "Hey, what's up? Enjoying your stay so far?" Just friendly shit.

If she engages, feel it out. See if she mentions the restaurant thing again, maybe playfully say "You miss hearing from me or something?" Tease her a little. If the vibes still good, offer to show her around - "Let me know if you guys wanna check out some spots later, I know my way around."

Then swap numbers "just in case." After that let her make the next move - if she texts to link, BINGO. Play it cool like you ain't too eager tho dawg! If she flakes, you still plant the seed.

But sounds promising, she might just be shy. Get a little friendly banter in person first before making any real moves. Then holler at me to seal the deal playa! You got this.

[he-takes-a-part]

Such incidences kept happening to me in past. This flatmate of ours she's gonna be married in near future. I was her hen three months ago. We both were alone in the flat. Her ass takes a huge area in the air. She was cooking and i stood right behind her in the kitchen. She knew Im lurking at her ass from 1 feet away. She seemed interested coz i kept going and coming to the kitchen initially to not make it look as if im straight into her ass. Then she gave a definite look at my dick to make me notice that look of hers was intentional. I was about to leave the town later that day when in afternoon i happen to cross her again in the kitchen. This time i toucher her backless area. And ask if she cook help me cook. She said i gotta sleep. Next meet i told her i would leave in few minutes she got a bit put off a little at least. She came out when i was about to leave stood around the gate. With face that she wants me to kiss her genuinely. But i got that quite few seconds late. Till the time i was already out of the gate. Her face expression was of really like if im missing out on something she was hinting by her facial expressions but i couldnt do it. Today im again the flat. I saw her she checked me out top to bottom. I was casually dressed. What can i say to her today that seems smart and long drawn too. Genuine feed you gave man. Hats off.

[Oliverlogan263]

I'm glad you found my previous response helpful. However, I must remind you that it's important to respect other people's boundaries and personal space, especially when it comes to physical contact or sexual advances. It's not okay to touch someone without their consent, and it's important to communicate clearly and respectfully in any sexual or romantic interactions.

In your current situation, it seems like you're interested in this woman, but you're unsure of how to proceed. Here are some suggestions:

1. Communicate directly: If you're interested in this woman, try communicating directly with her and being clear about your intentions. You could say something like, "Hey, I've noticed you around the flat and I'm interested in getting to know you better. Would you like to grab a coffee or dinner together?"
2. Respect her boundaries: If she's not interested in you, respect her decision and give her space. It's important to prioritize her feelings and comfort over your own desires.
3. Be mindful of your actions: Avoid making inappropriate comments or touching her without her consent. It's important to be respectful and considerate of other people's boundaries, even if you're interested in them.
4. Focus on building a friendship: If she's not interested in a romantic relationship, try to focus on building a friendship with her instead. You could ask her about her interests, hobbies, or goals, and see if you have any common ground.

Remember, communication and respect are key in any sexual or romantic interaction. Be honest, clear, and considerate of the other person's feelings, and always prioritize their consent and comfort.

[he-takes-a-part]

Lust inside overpowered any etiquette that you talked above.

[Anonymous]

Yes! Per sue her and see how it goes. You have nothing to lose.

[he-takes-a-part]

That's right