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Let me give you a random scenario.

Let’s say you’re out in the middle of nowhere. There are two single room buildings. One has 30 men and one has 30 women. All people have equal child care skills. You have been instructed to leave your daughter in one building for 24 hours with no contact. Once your daughter has entered the building she may not leave for those 24 hours. The people in these buildings can do whatever they want to your daughter without repercussion.

Which building would you chose?

There’s a guy I met online 6 years ago that lives in England. We dated long distance for a few months before he wanted to end things due to mental health. Throughout the next few years, we don’t talk much besides here and there like when he wishes me a happy birthday. We reconnected more last year and things were going great. We texted and called more often to sharing a British show to watch together. We disconnected again since he got busy with school a little but reconnected earlier this year (mid-June). We texted still, and he disclosed that he wanted a future with me by promising each other that we would see one another within the next couple of years. I was fine with it since I had nothing to lose, and he seemed to be ready for a beginning with me finally.

however, over time, his texts seemed to get a little more rude and disinterested. I didn’t talk about it since last I asked about him being sure about us, he got turned off. Last night, he disclosed that he wanted to put the relationship on “pause” since he’s starting a job that’ll require more effort but also didn’t even see the point of being with me due to not liking me anymore romantically. Also, not having the “funds” anymore for us meeting up. I was confused since the promise was made somewhat recently, and makes me believe he wanted to just not be alone rather than enjoy being alone. I’m not sure..

either way, I told him if he ends the relationship now that he won’t have a chance with me in the future since I’m not some revolving door that’s at his disposal for his convenience to which he understood. I’m not sure what to do about this ordeal or how to feel about it besides hating that he’s basically wasted at least a couple of years of my time knowing he was unsure anyway. What do you think?

I'm mostly interested in what men's behavior toward this as I am straight and hoping to find someone. but anyone else is also welcome to answer incase someone else is also curious to know what others think (men women whomever)

SO: if you were interested in someone and then find out they have bunions, would you be so turned off to just find someone else?

How important is it for women to have straight feet?

I read a lot about bunion surgeries and I almost had it done few years ago and I'm happy I didn't because a lot of people who have done it claim they can't move their feet, have pain or can't hike or run properly without having discomfort and pain.

bunions in my opinion are so ugly and I wish I didn't have them but I do. If I'm ever barefoot, people notice it right away, it feels so down putting. I feel sad even kids notice it.

so how much does this affect a person in reference to dating someone and then seeing they have this, rather run away? because ew?

this is basically how it tends to look, some people have it worse than others, some people have other problems along with this and looks extra awful, I've seen photos. I only have this so at least I'm thankful I don't have extra deformities or fungus but this alone is still depressing