Why do I get so much hate for saying I only want to seriously date a virgin. u can think it’s ridiculous, but it’s my life?

[Gangactivities911]

Women can not date a man for any reason in the world and no says a thing. They can reject a guy for being short, ugly, poor, small penis, bad in bed, a virgin, a man whore, etc. and no says a thing. Women are 100% fine if other women don’t date men for these reasons but if I don’t want to date a woman cuz she isn’t a virgin I’m somehow an asshole? Get real. No one has to date me and I don’t have to date anyone. I’m not comfortable dating a nonvirgin it makes me jealous and angry and I just don’t want to do it. I’d feel better alone. Not to mention women only get less attractive to me with age and part of me would rather just go for younger women my entire life so why marry then? Sorry that I’m not behaving like an obedient little slave for women today and doing what actually makes me happy.

[Miristheiss]

That is hard to do in this sleaze fest, slut culture we live in today. Most of the society starts screwing at 14 to 16 while they are kids still living with mom and dad, half the population thinks threesomes, open relationships, bisexuality, having 20-30 partners is the norm. Everyone is expected to have a slut phase in college and to sleep around and have casual sex and party... etc.

So, if you want a virgin you'd need to get them young. By college... it is probably too late. If you truly are 26 then the average 26 year old girl has probably had at least 5 partners. Many probably have 10 to 20.

You may have missed your goal by not marrying a high school sweet heart... someone you started dating at 16.

If you meet some 26 year old woman that went to college. Clubs, bars, drinking, hooking up at some point is the background on the majority of them. Her ability to pair bond and to be "connected" to one person is shot already.

Are you a virgin yourself?

[loveslongnails]

Trying to follow what makes you happy... You prefer virgins, but the older they get after you've dated them, the less attracted you are, so you'll move on to the next virgin and continue to do this for the rest of your life? Do I have that right?

[Gangactivities911]

No why would u think that?

[loveslongnails]

Because that's pretty much what you said. "Not to mention women only get less attractive to me with age and part of me would rather just go for younger women my entire life so why marry then? "

[LazerBean]

Are you also a virgin?

I agree that anyone can date anyone, and anyone can reject anyone for any reason. I just think it's pretty laughable when someone is an undesirable loser by their own standards.

[Gangactivities911]

Is short women only wanting tall men unacceptable to u? I don’t have to offer everything I expect. That’s not how this works. If what I have to offer doesn’t get me what I want then I’ll be single and that’s fine. I do think if I look hard enough I will find what I want tho.

[LazerBean]

No it is not acceptable, which is fine since all of my short guy friends are married and women in reality don't give a shit anyway 💁🏽‍♀️ like I said, if you find non-virgins undesirable, actual virgins are also going to find non-virgins undesirable.

[Gangactivities911]

An actual virgins can find me undesirable that’s fine I still don’t find virgins desirable. And it’s rich u say that cuz I’ve hardly seen another girl call out a girl who says that yet any time a guy ever mentions he doesn’t want to marry a virgin every girl in sight loses their minds. I don’t need a relationship in life and I especially don’t need one when women will have sex with me without one. What’s the point? Why should I want a relationship? Women today don’t really like men, why would I want to spend my life with one?

[LazerBean]

So you're saying all you want is to get your dick wet? That was expectable.

And that is exactly why women who choose to stay virgins for the right man look down on boys like you and find you undesirable lmfao

[Gangactivities911]

Women just want to get their vaginas wet aswell. Don’t act like most women have superior morals in this instance to men. Women by and large will go for the most sexually attractive guy they can just cuz there is one of him and they want to keep him for life doesn’t mean they’re not shallow af too.. it’s not shallow either to not want a relationship. Yes I just want sex. What’s wrong with that I thought we lived in a society where casual sex is ok? Apparently not. Virgins don’t have to date me I’ve said this a million times. Also women who are intentionally staying virgins probably shouldn’t date me I’m more hoping for one who happens to be a virgin and isn’t per she trying to be. But if I don’t find it fine. But I’m not dating a girl that makes me uncomfortable just so women are happy. This is my life

[LazerBean]

Go for it. You won't have to worry about a woman who is intentionally trying to stay a virgin accidentally falling for you, because people like you even make it into the friend group.

But you announcing that you find non-virgins undesirable is still going to repel even women who are trying to lose their virginity, because then they're going to know that you're going to immediately dump them. You might can pay someone though.

[Gangactivities911]

I don’t tell women I’d only date a virgin. I’ll keep that to myself my whole life maybe after several years of dating or marriage I’ll say something.

[LazerBean]

"Why should I want a relationship? Women today don’t really like men, why would I want to spend my life with one?"

You literally just insinuated that you are not looking for any type of long-term relationship. So why would you mention marriage now?

[Gangactivities911]

Well I’m really leaning towards never marrying but if I happen to find what I want I’ll go for it. I don't know tho maybe my mind will change eventually

[LazerBean]

Divorce would be inevitable in any marriage you are involved in, so I don't think you should bother.

[Gangactivities911]

If u had a personality that didn’t click with any woman you’ve ever met you’d only have shallow interests too. What am I supposed to do? Go for personality? I don’t click with any of them. I’ve hardly even had guy friends in my life. I’m not getting an intimate emotional connection so what do u suggest I do?

[LazerBean]

And now we get to the bottom of the real problem: nobody likes you, not even men. Which is very typically for people with your personality. The best thing I can suggest, and what my husband strongly believes helps, is to find some good old men who will teach you how to be a good man.

[Gangactivities911]

I don’t like anybody is the problem. People don’t tend to like me but it depends I also don’t care to make most people like me. Most guys actually like me cuz women find me really attractive. Most women like me too cuz im really attractive but I admit I don’t always have the best personality lmfao. Ur still making fun of me and not answering solutions. I have a very very odd and unique personality that makes it very hard to find people to associate with especially woman. If I have haven’t met any woman in my life I totally connected with what should I do?

[LazerBean]

I would stay single for sure and get therapy.

[Gangactivities911]

Ok so that’s what I’m doing and ur still mad at me? No amount of therapy will make me able to relate to other people anyways. I am weird af I don’t not relate to others

[LazerBean]

I'm not mad, I just pointing out that you definitely have a mental problem and should continue seeking help.

[Gangactivities911]

Hahahaha well ur not wrong. I’ve spent years in inpatient and outpatient therapy. I did start seeing a therapist again last week, if ur curious. But I don’t think that’s going to change my dating life. What would u do if u were unable to relate to others? When ur too smart and too real everyone hates u 🙄😇 that’s ok tho.

[Gangactivities911]

…And beautiful 😎. I’m just too perfect and these hoes can’t keep up. What can I say?

[LazerBean]

I thought you said my assumption that nobody likes you was incorrect and that a lot of people actually like you? But now you're saying people hate you.

To answer your question, being able to relate to other people is 100% a social skill. I've known a lot of very smart, very real people who people love. The only time people don't like smart and real people is when the "real" them is mean, weird, or self-absorbed.

[Gangactivities911]

People love me I hate me. People seem to mostly love me at first but then a lot of them grow to dislike me. Well that’s not true. In a friendly or professional setting everyone likes me but in a romantic setting it’s mixed and a lot of women don’t like me or are scared of me. It’s funny tho cuz they’ll act like they hate me but still secretly want to date me 😂. I’ve hardly met a really smart person in my life who wasn’t on The introverted side. When ur too smart and too real u are now walking on egg shells with everyone u talk to cuz u don’t know what’s gonna offend who. This world sucks don’t shoot the messenger

[LazerBean]

Being an introvert does not make you unlikable or unrelatable. Like I said, I know plenty of introverts who are smart, real, and likable. Being an introvert is not the problem.

[Gangactivities911]

A combination of being too real and not having good social skills makes u unlikable

[LazerBean]

Being real about being an unlikable person is what makes people unlikable.

[Gangactivities911]

That’s not what I mean. If u tell most people something like “religious and spiritual beliefs are ridiculous to believe in because they objectively cannot be proven and have no real evidence to support them” and watch most people flip shit. That’s just one example. Ur supposed to hide what clearly makes sense from most people because they are too emotional to accept reality.

[LazerBean]

Yes nobody is going to like being attacked unprovoked, including you. Obviously you, and I do specifically mean you, will not be hanging out with someone who tells you that you're a whorish manchild of poor character who is socially inadequate and tried to compensate for it by trying to project that people just don't like you because you are too smart.

[Gangactivities911]

Crushing delusions is attacking people yes that makes sense…. What u stated about me is an opinion a rude one too. What I said about religion is objectively correct. That’s the difference. And I’m not trying to offend people on purpose I’m just pointing out how in order to socialize with people u have to babysit their delusions and that gets old when u don’t share those delusions.

[Jessica405]

Have you had sex with a virgin? If so, you are a real hypocrite.

[Gangactivities911]

Is short women wanting to date tall men hypocritical? If these women like me and I like them well it’s a free market. I don’t have to date anyone

[boggboss]

Don't think it's that people care at the end of the day the choice only effects you the issue is you always have somthing negative to say about women that are not virgins then act suprised when people call u out

[Gangactivities911]

What do I have to say that’s negative about nonvirgins? Unless that’s what the discussion is about

[boggboss]

U have said on occasions they are not worth dating or make good partners and tend to speak about them in a negative light u also tend to bait arguments with anybody that disagrees with you whilst your questions are set up to interact with people that disagree with you so clearly its somthing u are looking to do

[Gangactivities911]

Maybe in the past couple days cuz I’ve been getting so much hate. But 99% of the times I’ve come on this site I never said the word virgin

[boggboss]

Thats a lie u have been posting up for moths and your pretty much say the same every time to the point all I do is check the afr and know who u are whenever I read something about only wanting virgins

[Gangactivities911]

So I talk about virgins? I say how I don’t want to date nonvirgins? I say how women today are too whorish for a serious relationship? Yeah I say all these things and I don’t see the problem with it.

[boggboss]

Well if you don't see the issue with that not much helping u

[JSmuve]

Those women are just acting out because they know they'd be rejected. They're feeling insecure and like their behaviour is being "controlled by the patriarchy". Most people want to exercise the right to reject whoever they want while still being accepted by everyone. You know, the whole "I just want to be loved for me" even if she's been run through by a block of guys.

[Staximus]

Time to grow upbl and live in the real world, dipshit. You're not in high school anymore. The virgins are few and far between.

[Gangactivities911]

Ok so I won’t seriously date anyone? I don’t need a serious relationship ever tbh

[Anonymous]

I don't think you're an asshole, but I don't think it's reasonable that you expect that girls are virgin.

[Gangactivities911]

It’s a high expectation forsure. And I won’t be surprised if u end up alone but I’m ok with that.

[Libertycityguy]

i think you need to grow up with that virgin thing especially at 26. would be different if you were 18 or 19. Are you a virgin?

[Anonymous]

Most women are easily triggered children who can dish out bullshit against men but can’t take it back.

[Gangactivities911]

Yes that has been my experience especially in the dating market. When u give someone so much power in the market it goes to their heads

[maximumpower]

If that's the deciding factor in your selection then you're quite shallow.

[Fuentes]

Not into virgins but you can like what you like

[Berethor]

Virgin women are best.