Let me give you a random scenario.
Let’s say you’re out in the middle of nowhere. There are two single room buildings. One has 30 men and one has 30 women. All people have equal child care skills. You have been instructed to leave your daughter in one building for 24 hours with no contact. Once your daughter has entered the building she may not leave for those 24 hours. The people in these buildings can do whatever they want to your daughter without repercussion.
Which building would you chose?
This is a very hard question because my very first instinct my very first thought was well I'm going to leave her with the 30 guys and then my next thought was well how old is my daughter in this scenario because first of all my daughter can handle herself second of all I would make sure that I walked by each and every guy and looked at them in their eyes deeply and they would have repercussion but now you add they can do anything they want without repercussion well I'm going to have to leave her with the women because she can handle herself that way too you're screwed no matter which way you look at it LOL cuz all it takes is one bad guy but it's the same time all it takes is one good guy to put a stop to everything I'm going to have to ask her depending on her age you have to tell me what her age is because right now this day I would say it's up to you which one do you want to go which one room can you handle yourself the best
The room with men because there would be at least some good men that would defend her, but the one with women would try to influence her and possibly turn her into a man hating feminist or a whore since most good women stand by and do nothing when other women do immoral things.
That’s an interesting conclusion to come to…reminds me of that news article about a women getting raped on a buss and none of the men on that buss actually did anything to stop it.
Sure, y'all say women but it's risky either side.
30 men- they MIGHT do something "to her" or could not and make sure she's okay.
30 women- same thing but could use her for their own ideas that doesn't even lay a finger on her. Her mind however... i'm scared
I don't want to leave my kids with any stranger but if I had to choose I'm going to have to go with the ladies. Leaving a little girl around bunch of unknown men can be dangerous. Same with little boys.
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There’s nothing like a carefully curated scenario to manufacture a response, is there? In the interest of fairness there are statistics available in the United States that mothers kill their own children more than fathers. Charitably, this is a poorly worded question, which would not pass muster at an institutional review board. At worst it is deliberately misandrist.
So in your mind, does identifying as male equate to pedophilia? Because I think that says more about you than it does about men.
No not at all. It just a social experiment
It’s not a very well designed experiment. You set conditions and use language designed to trigger participants bias, as well as have an open ended ‘anything they want’ condition which is not specific enough to produce useful data points. You never stated any selection criteria for research subjects, which means you aren’t screening for abuse or assault victims who understandably have a bias based on the identity of the person who harmed them going into it. If I was on the institutional review board at my university I would send this one back for further consideration.
Which would you chose based on the I formation provided?
I would exercise my parental rights to refuse participation while we still have them before big brother takes them away.
Failing that I would do the best I can to do my duty as a father to protect my daughters at whatever level of persuasion the threat requires.
It’s an A or B question. A or B?
My answer is I’m not going to participate in such a biased shoddy research methodology.
My whole purpose for being here in the first place is to try and help you ask better questions. If that’s not something you’re interested in fine. It doesn’t impact me either way so I’m done with it.
Well if you didn’t want to participate then you shouldn’t have even commented
Not interested in constructive criticism. Got it. Take it down then that seems to be happening to me a lot lately.
30 men, Out of 30 guys,
If even 1 acts up and does something he shouldn’t The other 29. Will beat him to a pulp,
Checks and balances
guys would keep her safe, And are more agressive in nature. She would probably be better off around guys than girls.
i really don't understand the point of this question. i mean come on. its nothing against men, but it only takes one weird ass person to scar your kid for life and statistically you're more likely to find that weirdo among 30 random men as opposed to 30 random women.
That's easy. First I would meet with the 30 women and 30 men. I would make it 100% clear that I'm an old school dad who doesn't believe in calling the cops when I know you messed with my kid. I'm an ace with a wide range of weapons & my fists. I would even enjoy doing the world a favor by ending people who like to prey on innocents. After that pep talk, I'd ask them to decide which one of them is going to take care of my kid.
I mean the wording alone suggests what the obvious choice is however a building of 30 child care professionals is a building of 30 child care professionals no matter if it is all men or all woman. Honestly I would be more weirded out by it being strictly one or the other.
30 women, I feel like this is the obvious answer for obvious reasons, tbh.
It goes without saying that the situation is ideal for none of us
But
I'd feel somewhat more safer if it was 30 women rather than 30 men for again, obvious reasons.
Depends how old the daughter is. If she's very young, I'd leave her with the women, to avoid any temptation by the men to abuse her. If she's grown, I'd leave her with the men, to avoid the typical female-female conflicts, and she can take care of herself if any of the men try anything.
I'm going to assume this question deals with a young daughter, so I'd leave her with the women.
If it's the opposite sex. Safer to leave it with females. My logic for this answer is based on the fact that there is extra risk for men.
Both can be psychopaths.
Both can be irresponsible.
But Both cannot be paedophiles only one group carries that extra risk.
That is blatantly false... woman can be pedophiles too. That totally disregards every person who has ever been sexually abused by a woman.
I would still rather leave my daughter with women then my daughter with men. I don't think he was saying women can sexually abuse other women, it also depends on how old my daughter is. I wouldn't want to leave my 13 year old daughter with 30 50 year old men... i would rather leave her with women. either way there both crappy choices but I would rather her be with the same sex. And if it was a boy Id rather him be with guys then girls. again its not because the same sex is perfect, but overall... the chances of a teenage girl being raped or something is more likely to happen with men then women. Not that women can't do the same thing, the chances are just smaller. It also depends who the people are. Like if the guys were a bunch of dads and the girls were a bunch of prison girls, Id rather leave her with the group of fathers who have there own daughters. It really depends on the situation but I do agree with @aimer07to some degree.
The woman are more likely to emotionally abuse her. The men will be divided, but odds are by majority physically and emotionally protective. I would go men.
I can see that perspective
From experience of my ex step daughter 30 women. My ex's daughter slept basically with everyone she could including her cousin, brother, uncle, an aunt, teachers, married men, married women and me. She has severe mental health issues but is extremely attractive and charming. Probably the best sex i ever had.
So your family including yourself sexually abused a mentally disabled family member and you are bragging about it? …… see it’s men like you that give men a bad reputation as predators
Wow. You went anonymous to brag about sleeping with a mentally and emotionally damaged girl. You sir are a monster.
She wasn't a victim, far from it. If a man had done what she'd done to the women in her family you'd treat her like a perpetrator.
She is a victim. Normal kids aren't sexually active and the family members should have got her help not helped themself to her. You being a father figure you should have loved her to help her not take advantage of her... imagine your daughter being handicapped and family and sick pedophiles sleeping with her. Use the brain you were born with. Having an orgasm with a child is sick you fuck. Anonymous pervert. Your karma is fucked.
@lickmypink216 she wasn't a child. She was a grown ass woman who didn't care who she hurt.
You slept with your mentally disabled step daughter... you are a monster. Its men like you that give men a bad reputation, you're a disgusting predator. Someone should take you off the streets.
She was your step child. You got with a woman with a child raised her and ended up fucking her. Ur a piece of shit. Just cuz you supposedly waited til she was grown doesn't mean you aren't sick you definitely thought about it because if you hadn't u would have had the heart and love for her to take care of her not participate in fucking her. Turd.
If it is a minor child the men will shift into 'protector' mode, they will make sure she is cared for, fed, watched over, to bed at an appropriate time. The peer pressure to protect the child in this situation would be something to behold, and any of the 30 who tried to interfere with the child would get an almighty pummelling
I'd send her with the men, they should be more able to protect her. If we're in the middle of nowhere, I wouldn't trust a woman I don't know. At least most people are good.
I don’t have a kid so thinking hypothetically is a little difficult. But I’d leave her with the 30 men, they’re more likely to protect her especially if she’s a minor.
Why do you think they are more likely to protect her? And protect her from what?
it depends on the age of the girl... and the men, if its a younger girl, 12 and under, for most men they have a natural instinct to protect her. And the chances of all 30 men being a pervert is just basically 0%. even if 5 of them were, that leaves 25 protective men who will fight to the death to protect her. Especially if these men are fathers and have there own daughter or son, or wife, or sister. I'm 16 and I can tell you right now, If I was one of those 30 men and it was a young kid, boy or girl I naturally would want to keep them protected. Its a hormonal thing in guys. There's more good guys out there then bad. but if she was older, like 17... hell no she can stay with the women. Those guys are gonna be on her like flys on shit lmao. not literally im sure most of them if there married or have kids on there own won't do anything, but the chances of that one bad apple doing something are increased.
No idea what they’d protect her from, but Matthew pretty much sums it up. Not all dudes are bad and the vast majority are going to be more likely to protect a child. Especially a young one. A teenage almost adult though I wouldn’t leave with a bunch of random men. Ideally I wouldn’t leave a child with either option but that wasn’t a choice.
I would rather leave my step daughter, Subaru Jr., with the 30 men and tell her "Knock yourself out."
Good thing you're not a parent
@Subarugirl
I'd still be better than you, sugar tits! At least I wouldn't have my daughter "transition" and go on hormone blockers when she's seven, or tell my son he's useless and should off himself cause he has a Y chromosome and balls.
I am already a parent and I don't do either of those things...
Rather her be stuck with women. Just depends on the situation and what could happen. So long as they don't fill her head with stupid shit, I am fine with that.
Most men aren't predators, so the off chance of one of those men trying to harm the child, the majority will be ready to beat the fuck out of him. So men.
I’d probably kill the Person trying to make me give up my daughter.
Lol dude there are two options, if you don’t want to answer then don’t, but since you are here. A or B?
I’m going to go James T. Kirk here, young lady.
I’m changing the rules of the encounter. I’m not giving up my daughter to anyone without ending their threat to my kids.
I know you’re trying to prove a point, a LOT of my female relatives and many of my male relatives have been molested or raped…including myself. All by men! (Big surprise).
I don’t know your past but you obviously discount male survivors of sexual abuse that will put their own lives in harms way to save any kids from abuse.
Instead of throwing all men under the bus…use some of your abilities and intellect to support organizations that save victims from human trafficking.
https://www.ourrescue.org/
IJM. org
You’re a smart girl. I don’t know your past and I don’t presume to know you. I respect you. You’ve posted many thoughtful and well thought out things in the past few years.
But you also seem to be very anti-male in just about everything.
There are some good men out here. Ready to risk our own lives for others.
Oh, and don’t forget that there are women who are used as groomers so it’s easier to seduce the young into trafficking. Ghislaine Maxwell was just the highest profile woman arrested. Women aid in the abduction and rape of many victims as well.
Okay if you don’t want to play by the rules then don’t play at all lol…. It’s a hypothetical question, if you want to change the parameters and change the question then ask your own
Except it’s not winning if you have to bring tools to play
*break the rules
Maybe he’s not my hero in all things but he won’t just accept defeat
https://m.youtube.com/watch?v=boET3741BF4
Then your comment is off topic
No it’s not it’s an a or b question.
m women are ~infinitely~ less likely to do any kind of harm to her
that's just statistically
We disagree. 😁 Fun.
@dustybiker well... I did not say incapable, I went with statistics only... lol
but I could also switch it up...
if I were one of the 30 men inside that room, there is absolutely no way I would ever let any of that happen... and I could knock out cold and gone, at least four or five of them if they decided to get any kind stupid with a child
and then... there would 24 other thinking really hard about their choice... do you want to try your luck and get stupid? there will be no consequences from those outside the room, but inside there sure will be
I do believe that very few of those 24 will decide to take their chances... because statistically speaking, they are the more decent ones
and those whom remain and are stupid now have the odds against... lmao
Yup. Those were basically my thoughts too.
I don't want to be in a situation where I has to leave my daughter with a stranger but if I had to I'll it with women. And 30 is a bit exaggerated for a number to take care of a child.
I can’t find myself trusting 30 strange men regardless. I don’t have children yet but I have nieces and nephews and there is no way I would leave them with a bunch of strange men.
Question! Are they strangers or are they people I know and trust?
Strangers
What mother would even leave her child for 24 hours? Just a STUPID Question!
It's called a hypothetical questions for the sake of a social experiment. It's okay, not everyone is able to grasp that concept.
I picked 30 men because she has more leverage in that building
a female in the female building is just survival of the fittest
she is more likely to be protected in the men building
Protected from what? None of them can leave for 24 hours?
Yea but that doesn’t mean someone can’t break in she is safer in the dude building
okay well lets say there is no outside interference. No one can go in or out of that building for 24 hours..
Do they have their phones?
No, no outside interference for 24 hours. No phones, no outside contact
Okay so what’s keeping them there
The doors are locked, there are no widows and they are not able to get out.
So they’re trapped? was my daughter kidnapped?
Women. I trust no man around my daughter that isn't her father. If it was my son i would choose the women too. Lol
It is obvious that with women. I am not judging men. But in India, there is so much case of increasing rape to even 5 years old girls.
I don't know what to think of this question what exactly is the point? I honestly wonder for those who answered with men.
I'd rather leave her with other women, at least with other women there is common themes to talk about.
This is tough because I was sexually abused by my mother and sister, but never my father or brother.
I don't trust women at all with little boys, but maybe they would be more normal with a girl.
The 30 men for a simple reason. It is likely that enough of them HATE child molesters and would end any of the others who tried anything. Not that the ladies might not also do so, but I would expect the men to do so.
30 men is better.
The men will probably not do anything to her. Women on the other hand all hate each other.
That’s interesting because research shows that women actually work together better then men do.
Indifferent.
Imagine that there are people that want to abuse your daughter. Most likely the rest of people will vote to protect her. That simple.
What kind of a shitty parent would leave their daughter in a room with 30 random strangers for 24 hours? That's asking for her to be sex trafficked.
It’s a hypothetical question….
you're disgusting for even leaving your child.
Obviously they aren't safe with any strangers.
Are you not familiar with hypothetical questions or would you like me to explain it to you?
I hope you don'r have a child because your question is concerning.
Are you not familiar with social experiments and hypothetical situations?
You aren't smart enough to be doing any experiments. Just focus on being normal first.
Finish high school first kiddo... then you can join the grown ups. I know that hypothetical scenarios must be a difficult concept for you to grasp since your prefrontal cortex isn't fully developed yet but once you mature a little more I am sure that abstract concepts like hypotheticals will become easier for you to understand. Best of luck to you kiddo.
Blah, blah, blah... You were probably a teen mom. You never had a brain and never will.
Shouldn't you be in school right now?
Shouldn't you be feeding your cats?
Lol you're adorable hahaha, kids these day haha
You already left your daughter with 30 strange women who are probably hooked on meth and trying to sell her online for drug money.
oh you are confused aren't you sweetie, I don't have a daughter. You better start paying better attention in class instead of messing around when you are supposed to be learning.
Exactly. You probably lost her to child protective services because you tried to leave her with 30 random people.
sweetie I'd be more concerned about not failing your classes... instead of using that big imagination of yours to fabricate farcical stories. Does your parents know that you spend time on this website when you should be focusing on your school work?
Stop trying to change the subject you sociopath.
I hope you get your tubes tied.
says the child that has no idea what a hypothetical question is. Go do you home work kiddo before you start failing more classes.
You're an idiot, and this is a sexist troll question that tries to generalize all men as being dangerous by lumping them together as a group because (As others have said) you have a history here of misandry and male bashing behaviour. I don't need to go to class to see through your crap bitch.
30 women cuz women have instinct to take care a kid
I'd leave my daughter with women... I'd leave my son with men...
Pretty simple rule based on relatability. However there are expects.
I want to know why those few women would pick 30 men.
It’s too sketchy of a scenario for me to send them into either
But if you had to chose one, which would it be?
I’ll say if she’s adult then it’s her choice
In this scenario she’s a minor
Women, they're less motivated to do anything bad to another woman. Testosterone makes us men more aggressive but we can control it if we're wise enough.
I think it's a bad bet either way. Fortunately, most people do not harm children. That said, in my residency, I worked at Children's Hospital in SF. Generally, men were more likely to physically abuse children and women were more likely to neglect (not feed or care for appropriately) children.
I think women will give better child care. I'd be like the little girl can take care of herself.
Hell no i am gonna leave her in any room with people who can do to other people and are not answerable it could end up shitty in both places
I wouldn't want my daughter talking to anyone, this generation is the worst brand of humans to ever walk the planet. I'd homeschool her as well
Even if it was one woman and one man, I'd still choose the one woman. Chances of him sexually assaulting her are just much higher.
30 women because it's better for her to be with her own gender if it was the son he would go with the men 24 hours is a long time maybe they could learn some stuff.
If I had to choose the woman. The woman can at least relay most of the time. Not sure if the guys would just go at it with her or protect her.
I think it depends on the age of the girl and who these 30 people are. if its a small child, young child, most men will be very very protective, especially if they have a daughter of there own.
@Matthew2024 I can agree with that
Neither I wouldn't let my daughter be molested if I had a daughter
So says every parent, unfortunately 20% of female children will end up being the victim of sexual abuse before their 18th birthday, and 95% of those victims will be abused by someone they know and trust. The majority of those children will be experience that abuse between the ages of 3 and 8.
Time to give kids stun gun an mace an small razor sharp knife like my mom gave me as a kid the knife to protect my self
Except Seventy-three percent of child victims do not tell anyone about the abuse for at least 1 year. Forty-five percent do not tell anyone for 5 years and Eighty-four percent of sexual victimization of children under 12 occurs in a residence
Yah my family friend use to tell her daughter as old as 2 to tell hector a cop if any one touches you down there anshe even stayed with daughter during doctor exams an dentist appointments
How about I leave my adult daughter with her 30 other adult female friends with 1 very young male alone and whatever happens happens.
Bad choice. The men might rape her and the women might murder her.
See now this is where ill say id rather leave her with 30 women. We all would instinctively. Same way you wouldn't leave a child with 30 men
Of course even the guys here are saying with the women.
It doesn't matter. Their sex doesn't determine behavior.
Women. I wouldn't trust men around my daughter alone.
Doesn't matter, but I'll take the chance to get involved with 30 ladies.
Women, because society has indoctrinated me with sexist standards.
Because if something happened while I left her with 30 men I wouldn't be able to live with myself.
I would prefer:
Straight women or gay men
But not:
Straight men or gay women
Who the fuck would choose the 30 men?
It wouldn't matter. They are both equally good.
30 men would keep her safe.
30 women wouldn't.
Safe from what?
Women, they are kinder!
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