How do you have game with woman?

[tommy6942069]

I'm starting to realize I have no game. I'm not bad with social interactions, but I notice I don't seek them out. I can handle conversing with an attractive woman if the need calls for it, rather at work or with some girl in public. But only if the need calls for it because it's a neutral work environment. I need to learn how to flirt with girls my age in the wild. I'm 25 and I'm better at talking with adults older than me. I often find people my age and below very immature and hard to make conversation with. Problem is I want a girl about my age. I don't know how to start flirting with a girl I find say at the super market looking at me. I found it rude to stare at, well anyone so I avoided looking at most strangers unless prompted to. So I avoid looking at girls faces for too long or at all in public. I often end up walking right past girls who do look at me. Am I supposed to look right back? I saw a girl today working at Fry's who almost made me fall in love on the spot, and it's been on my mind ever since. If she noticed me, what do I say to her? I feel a lack of trying for my bad luck with dating apps. I assume if no girls there wanna date me, how is real life gonna be any different, so why try? So at my new job I end up alone with real estate agents amd home owners while at work taking pictures. Sometimes the female agents sound a little flirty, how do I go about flirting and getting my interest known without being to awkward?

[Nightskies]

Well, not all people your age or younger are immature. Maybe the ones you’ve met. So don’t discriminate all younger or older people from your interests. My boyfriend and I met at my work and I worked at a retail store/grocery store back then. The way he approached me was pretty smooth. He took his time into it and didn’t take things so fast. First he asked me for help with something and then made a small conversation about my day and just little stuff that you’d talk to anyone about. Then a few days later he came back to the store and we talked some more and then he asked for my number. And by then we just started texting each other and now we’ve been together for about a year and strong. So I think if you see someone that might be interested in you and you have an interest in them, you should find a good approach. Don’t just go up to them and sound super desperate. Maybe in certain situations you guys have been glancing at each other then get up and go to the bathroom and when you go back to your seat walk by and give a nice compliment like “your hair looks nice” or whatever you find attractive like their smile I guess. Or if you don’t really feel like wasting time just go ahead and ask if they’d like to eat with you and have a nice conversation. This is just an example using a small resturant scenario. But honestly you could just go up to the person you like and straight up ask for their number maybe something like “Hey I noticed you and I really like your demeanor, you seem like a cool person. Do you think we could exchange numbers and get to talk more privately?” Make sure you say talk cause you don’t want them to just think all you want is sex. And if that’s all they seem to want then you shouldn’t even bother trying to form a relationship. Noticing someone’s demeanor and pointing it out shows you’re not really like most people cause usually guys will be like “I think you’re really cute” instead of noticing the persons actions. Don’t be afraid to get rejected. If you don’t try then you’ll never know. If you get rejected well guess what, there’s a lot of other people around you that you can find whether it’s at work or just anywhere you hang around. Every person has different personalities so don’t give up! Good luck man.