Why are black women, hated on so badly?

[Enhaut]

I know the people here on gag will probably give the typical response - "every gets hate not just black women!"

Okay...

Then why do I see entire forums in the internet dedicated to putting them down, why do I see people calling them "monkeys" and shit?

Let me show you this forum I saw - it was the first thing that popped up when i searched black women,

"Reasons Why White Women Will Always Be More Attractive Than Black Women

- White women are natural with their looks while black women try so hard to imitate them.
- Black women are the least desired women out there. Any other race of men can get a black woman with the snap of their fingers, it's just that easy.
- White women are natural in their views, while black women are frauds. They try too hard to be white.
- White women are freaks in bed while black women have to be the most sexually boring women out there.
- White women are everyone's trophy/prize. The same can't be said about black women.

I still love my black women and I just finished smashing one. I'm just keeping it real. It's a new dawn and I've promised to be as real as I can be this year. Honesty is the best policy. "

Like is this a joke? And then there's this stupid article

https://www.returnofkings.com/50375/5-reasons-why-i-no-longer-game-black-women

I always find it funny how people like to say that black women have bad attitudes and such.

Well let me ask you something - How do you expect black women to react to this?

Why is it acceptable for a white woman, Latina women, or Asian women to defend themselves against this stuff - but black women are expected to be silent and "not aggressive" as people talk about them this way?

What? Am I just expected not to defend myself, because let's be honest no one else will ( not even black dudes)

Why shouldn't I get to call BS when I see it?

There's a difference between having your preferences, and then having the basic respect to treat someone like a human being.

[hahahmm]

Let me preface this by saying that you have good & bad in all racial groups. That said...

First, the only black women crying about being hated on are the ones who can't keep a man. I've heard many case of these same black women rejecting educated, business owning black men with upstanding characters. But they're open to dating the bottom of the barrel white guy who doesn't even want her. Mind you, there's some black women in high demand who get anything they want from any man of any race. Anyhow...

Secondly, maybe black women in the U. S. have demonstrated that they are more likely to be whores by having the highest rate of single moms in the country. If the thing you're best known for is getting pumped & dumped, there's something wrong with your whole approach to being taken seriously. Yes, we could say that other races also have similar issues but the numbers are much lower if you check stats. Even if the numbers are faked because non-black women are clever enough to not be a single mom by letting someone else take the kid or getting married fast... they still fixed their marketing problem and they didn't try to raise a boy as a single mom which is the dumbest thing a woman can do & it's absolutely repulsive to a man with half a brain.

Thirdly, maybe, because black women often come from families where a woman ran the show and was domineering. There's a whole movement of men running away from that kind of woman. Why would he run to her?

But as I would tell any woman, if you want to be taking seriously, you have to take yourself seriously (have self respect) & check out my MyTake about being a lady if you want to reach for the stars from a traditional man's POV.

[Anonymous]

I don't really hate black women, I'm more annoyed by some white women.
The only contradiction about black women that gives me some concern is that occasionally I see a black woman on gag who's like "Why are white guys not attracted to black women? "
Then on another question I'll see black women say "I can't stand the white men with a fetish for black women!!"
then I'll see a white guy ask "Why do some black women accuse white men of having a fetish when we're supposedly not attracted to black women, we don't have a fetish!"
Then he got a response from a white woman "Stop picking on black women, they don't need to hear that you don't fetishize them and don't want them! "
Well first off, I am attracted to black women and theirs no such thing as a stupid fetish for black women. Black women are naturally attractive, it doesn't even fit the definition of a fetish!
Do you see why it's so complicated to even bother pursuing black women sometimes?

[doopayo]

Do not listen to those self hating black men. They’re clowns, trust me. Just think about it, you don’t see white men/Asian men/Etc putting their women down as much as black men do on a daily bases.


I’ve come across literal communities of self hating black men, even black rappers are self hating. Like the dark skin rappers who have the nerve to say they don’t date dark skin women because that skin tones ugly? Bitch you are that skin tone, tf are you talking about?


It’s self hate.. period blank. Another reason is they’ll be quick to project their experience with a few black women and use that to hate on or project their hatred on that specific black woman on to other black women.

[Carolus]

These are the after-results of racism and other social injustices which bred a generation of angry people over a period of time, that’s why most black people are hostile towards everyone, a psychological attitude that make them always in flight and combative mode. Note: this is mostly in white countries and not in Africa where majority are blacks. On physical appearance, what do you expect when you are colonized, told you are ugly and primitive then forced to eat, dress, work, fuck, look and talk like your colonizer? The so called civilization was a total fail for a black man. Introduction of capitalism and democracy was a total fail for a black man. Let’s deal with racism and these injustices for black people to start healing. You are either the solution or part of the problem.

[Jersey2]

Ahhh, so it’s the white mans fault. Got it.

[Manchild2018]

There are racists in this world but if you go outside your house and live life you see that most people are good people and are not racist. Yes online has some racists on it. They are real idiots but that is not most people. I don't see the point in hating someone for being a different race. It makes no sense to me.

[Mcmarvelous]

You are putting all your eggs in one basket... so to speak. With the current state of things you have to expect the good bad and ugly. Our current government is trying to turn everyone against each other. Any people are fine but it's fun to make fun of each other's ethnicity. And it's all excepted unless your black

[normalice]

Because all the black women they show on television are either trying to conform to white standards of beauty or are vastly overweight. For example it is rare to see thin black women with an afro on television.

[hahahmm]

I reject the premise that a black woman can't look like a white woman without "trying to conform to white standards". In Somalia and Ethiopia what is considered meh there is easily a 7 or 8 on the 10 point scale. Every so-called white beauty standard of facial features is naturally present there and has been since ancient times. But yes, for a long time fat fugly black women on tv was the norm. And fat & fugly white women were seldom seen on the same networks.

[Anonymous]

They're not in real life. I mean there are people who hate black women (and white men) but they are very uncommon. But their voices on the internet rise above the others and make it seem as though everyone hates black women and white men. But in real life, it's not common at all.

[livingnightmare]

that article was written by Donovan Sharpe who is a black man so... even black men dont find their own women attractive is why they always have white black or hispanic girls in their rap videos. you can pretty much find racist posts against any race.

[Enhaut]

But why is it that people run to the the defense of everyone except black women
? Why are they expected to defend themselves but I can't?

[rcljr]

Wouldn’t know, I don’t live around, associate with or pay attention at all to black people, just not on my radar.

[Texaskid1]

Many black women are attractive. The problem is that black women tend to be loud and rude and have an attitude.

[Anonymous]

I like some black women but overall the ones that are pushed on us through media and social media are hate-filled, loud, fat and entitled. Why? Why the fuck would anyone life that? Even black males run screaming into the arms of the white saviors

[_deeznuts]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=oRzvL1cS_r0

[Anonymous]

I think it is because people discriminate so much by looks, and it is extremely terrible at how much racism is there towards black women and how accepted it is by most men!

[notwoke]

because multiculturalism is like putting lions in a cage with tigers, it just won't work, never has.

[ManHater]

Just look how they act. Its like beyond anything that is desirable.

[OddBeMe]

Blacks and women are hated on in society. So it’s logical that black women get the brunt.

[Anonymous]

The only people I see bashing black women are black boys.

[BlckGrl]

Agreed

[Anonymous]

Black woman hate on other black women.
Who are lighter or mixed, or different nationality.

[doopayo]

Lol, that stuff doesn’t happen to light skin/mixed black women as much as dark skin black women have to deal with it

[doopayo]

Plus you aren’t even a woman yourself, how would you know

[Opinion Owner]

I see it all the time. Anybody complaining about black stuff it's usually a woman.
Colorism, misonoir, etc are made by black women usually the dark one.
Who bully the light ones

[doopayo]

Colorism and misogynoir are actual things that exist, just cause you yourself don’t do your own research on it doesn’t mean it doesn’t exist. Especially since you’re a man, even if your black you as a man will never experience misogynoir since you’re not a black woman.

Dark skin women aren’t complaining about anything, they’re shedding light to the situation but the fact that you find them calling out colorism as “them attacking light skin women” is prejudice.

Instead of hearing what they have to say your bias filters everything out and calls it “complaining”

[SmokinAces2000]

Because this is America

[SmokinAces2000]

And also white woken are the beauty standard which I really don’t understand because I’ve never found white women attractive in the slightest

[SmokinAces2000]

Women*

[Anonymous]

Because people don't find Black woman attractive

[anylolone]

They aren't.