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Cheating is already awful but to then do the nasty deed in your partner's house (not even nor own house at least) has got to be one of the worst insults ever.

This happened to a good friend of mine. Her ex boyfriend (then boyfriend) had the nerve to bring the other woman to her house, do the nasty deed on her own couch, heads towards the bathroom with her to take a shower, eat some of her food from the fridge and used her wine bottle.

Even though she didn't walk in on them (she was working), she installed a hidden camera because his behavior changed. The next week, she viewed her camera and dumped him immediately. To her that was even worse than walking in on them cheating.

Obviously both ways are horrible ways to discover you've been cheated on but which would be worse to you?

- The old classical way of coming early from work or whatever reason and walking in on them cheating.

- Reviewing your installed camera the next day or week later and seeing what happened while you were gone.

I heard a story about that. It goes like this:

- A gets caught cheating (in the act) and is remorseful.

- B breaks up but then reconciles and they worked it out.

- Years later they get married and have kids.

- B suddenly cheats for revenge, feels nothing for the affair person.

- B at least confesses to it and stops the affair

They're both even. Is it ever right to cheat back? What if it's out of just revenge and you're even using the affair person, feel nothing for them?