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So long story short this guy and I started talking and we both clicked and spent multiple days together just hanging out. We started making out and being intimate/ cuddling. We didn’t want to rush into things and both mutually wanted to fall in love with our best friend. Out of the blue he just went cold so I separated myself and then he stated he didn’t want kids (I have 2) which confused me even more so I backed off. He invited me over to look at my car (which he’d put off for a while) and then said I could hang out if I wanted. I didn’t try to cuddle or anything like we used to and he traced my arm and laid me on his chest. He invited me to go see a movie. I’m just confused. What in the heck?

Short Background:

So I'm friends with this guy, not close or anything, but I do like him.

I don't know if he likes me or not, he offered to tutor me for maths online since he'll be in a different city for Uni.

I'm wondering whether he was just being nice, or if he was giving an indication he likes me, or something else.

So I am in an exklusive dating with a guy who is 30 and I am 22. We ve been dating since October 2024.

I feel like there are some issues between us and also there are some problems on my part that I feel like may cause this relationship to end.

A month ago, I asked how he feels about me and if we could be girlfriend and boyfriend, but he said he is not read.

He says he likes me, and we do go on some dates every time we meet. But I feel like he is mostly interested in sex. Why do things that are done in a relationship but not want to have a relationship? Is it commitment issues or he just doesn't love me?

by the way we live in different cities so we visit each other. Like taking turns.

I want to love and to be loved deeply, but I feel like he does not love me and my feeling for him are decreasing, maybe because I am dissapointed. And for me, feelings is what makes me continue a relationship, which mean it's more important for me than sex.

I feel so insecure because of a lot of things

- that he does not show enough care. For example when he talks about his problems, I pay attention, care for him and solve them together. But when I talk about my problems, he just say it's gonna be alright and good night. No more comfort/care or whatever.

- he forgot my birthday

- I feel like he just is dating me as a second option just because other girls have not chosen him

- that my university grades are not so great right now and my family use me now and then.

- a lot of things has happened lately that makes me question myself, my relationship and my family. I see negativity more that positivity. I don't know if I am starting to become depressed.

I am a bit naive I guess.

I am thinking if I should break up with him because I don't feel loved the way I want or if I just should wait and see how it goes first and then decide.

I am also tired of dating and relationship that waste my time and feelings. I am tired of being used just for being kind. People treat me as an idiot and naive.