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My fiance is a strong man in many ways, and he protects me and provides for me. He asked me if he could do a body shot on me. I had never before allowed a man to do this. I was like, what the heck, since he works hard and protects me. We were at my place, he prepared the shot, and he put me on the table, and raised my shirt up so my belly was exposed. He asked me if I was comfortable and I said yes. He poured the shot and drank it off my belly. It actually made feel closer to him, I didn't feel objectified. We talked after, and he reassured me that he liked my body, but he liked my company too.

I have a gym crush and I'm planning on asking him out. We've been in the same gym for around 4 months, we see each other probably 2 times a week but we never talked. It's hard to smile or even just make eye contact with him, as he's always stuck on his phone with his earphones on. So I was thinking of just coming up to him and say "hey I think you're cute, I was wondering if you were single". Can this be off putting for a guy?