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My boyfriend lets me sleep over at his place and he’s told me he loves me and has introduced me as his girlfriend to everyone and had introduced me to his friends... he’s ok with me talking to his male friends but gets mad and insists that I don’t talk to his brother at all... not even a hello... he also told me of a time when his brother stole a girl from him but that was a long time ago... his bro is married with kids now... he also told me not to add his sister cuz she’s all drama and takes everything seriously...

is he scared of if his brother causing trouble and possibly cheating on his wife?
Or is my boyfriend not serious about me?

(I have met his family very briefly at a bday party I was invited to by his brother)

27F, I hate to describe this as daddy issues. For the most part, my dad and I have gotten along. My parents divorced when I was 8, after that he started to take his frustrations out on me (mom cheated). At around 23 I got tired of it, I moved out of state to live w my gma at 13 but we talked over phone. I pretty much said fuck him and didn’t talk to him for three years. My parents are still good friends, my mom has been with the same guy and my dad is single I think.

For over a year, my dad and I rekindled. He seemed to change with me, I think he knows I’m not taking that anymore and we never argue. But I’m irritated when he calls too often. My mom can call me whenever (I have resentment towards her too) and I have no prob. My dad calls too frequently (more than once a week) and I get irritated.

He just annoys me, he asks me the same questions frequently and I put him in his place lol. I know he remembers, my mom blames it on him not knowing what to say to me. My dad doesn’t have a good relationship with his family, everyone always makes the excuse that I’m all he has. My moms family is shit too but I guess she has a boyfriend and 2 other kids.

What frustrates me is that really isn’t my fault, I always think what if I was married or had kids. I would have to coddle and make time for my dad then too? I’m single, no friends and don’t feel like I need to talk to my parents that often.

TL;DR: am I being too harsh with my dads need to talk with me often?