Search Results: let go

For this, i want both sides to be brutally honest, so I will, too. I'm an ex alcoholic who had significant emotional issues for years that was caused by me having a bad, negative attitude. That out of the way, I wonder where the disconnect occurrs with men not sharing their emotions with women. Such as what I just did, a hardship of addiction caused by my own bad, irresponsible decisions, fault of nobody except myself, but this is vulnerability to let it go. Maybe one of you guys lost someone you cared about, someone moved away and you miss them, you feel stuck, you want to travel, and you think nobody cares about your happiness, so you suck it up and keep working. Men, is this what you're doing? Are you keeping everything that hurts you inside because you think nobody cares and will see you as weak? Ladies, if a man is doing this, perhaps a man you love is keeping his tears in, should he continue? Would you care if he sat down and told you? Guys, if you're hiding, press "yes". Ladies, if you think men, honest to God, would you see a man as less if he told you about his plight? If you answer yes, then hit "yes", to say men should keep these emotions to themselves

I just can't get these girls. They match on Tinder, they respond and then 2 hours later I find myself unmatched! I can't get it.

This particular girl I matched with when I was abroad. She said hi first. I replied telling her that I was on vacation and stuff. Then we didn't chat more. Today about 12 days later I sent her Happy Chrsitmass. To my amazement she answered within 5 minutes with a Happy Xmass to you too. I pressed like on her message. And that's all I did. I did not bother her or anything. And then about 2 hours later I went to open my Tinder app to check her profile a bit to see her pics because I did find her attractive, and I found that she had unmatched me!!!

Can someone explain? It's always the same story. Or if not always lets say very often. Like who the fuck do these girls think they are? Imagine if you are in a relationship with a girl and one slip and that's it she pulls off the plug. OR not even a wrong slip, because I haven't done anything to her, still she pulls of the plug for nothing. :( I can't believe it.