Search Results: look of attraction

1. Looking at someone while their head is down, and then smiling at them, once they look up, and make eye contact

2. Smiling and saying hi to someone standing behind you, and then looking back at them 2 or 3 times

3. Walking into a restaurant, and someone looking at you, looking down at their phone, and then looking up at you again

Just for the record it is not racist if you just find certain ethnicities physically attractive.

Physical attraction isn’t a choice. Race is also a bullshit victim excuse some people use who can’t handle rejection (if it was due to looks). If a minority girl isn’t physically attracted to me because I’m white then she’s just not attracted to me. I might be disappointed but it’s just how it is. Not her fault because physical attraction isn’t a choice.

However if you do find someone of a different race attractive but won’t even give them a chance because of unfair prejudices that’s a different story. It’s one thing if you took the time to get to know them and you just found them incompatible. But quite another if you intentionally stayed away despite finding them attractive otherwise.

Anyway I have have dated outside my race plenty of times. But often found these women brought up racial differences more than I did. I had an Asian ex girlfriend who would say “ah white people” occasionally when she was frustrated with me over something. It didn’t bother me the much because she was young, beautiful and in love with me for a long stretch. But I rarely brought up race when dating and if I did it was usually positive (she was a good cook).

But still I truly believe women consider race more when it comes to dating then they will admit (white girls especially won’t admit that).

Again I do NOT think it’s “racist” to admit you don’t find a certain ethnicity attractive (but respect them otherwise). But I think women are secretly more picky about this.

I don't often wear my glasses, but when I do, older coworkers, girlfriends moms, and older women who notice often give huge compliments.
I often hear "you look so much better with glasses" or "I prefer you with glasses", or "handsome like Clark Kent". It's flattering but I'm trying to attract women my age!

Women my age don't really notice or compliment me with or without. I don't notice any difference in eye contact or attraction - maybe I'm just getting older 😅

Any thoughts?