What is the population of men missing?

[Anonymous]

Imagine 95% of all the women on earth stopped trying to look cute, pretty, sexy, or otherwise attractive to men. That 95% of women became obese and gross.

Men would be sad because the main part of our attraction towards women is gone.

I am assuming that in real life, a good percentage of men are basically the female equivalent of what I described above.

My question is, what are those men missing? What is the recipe of attraction that so many men are not engaging in?

[Apple1996]

They need to gain a better attitude towards women. It's not about looks and money. Lots of men just have a nasty attitude towards women. We see it on here all the time online.

Men telling women they've hit the wall or that they feel entitled to tell women how to look/dress. Like if y'all say those things we aren't gonna be attracted to most men. Speak positive about women and also be yourself. Don't try faking yourself as better then what you really are. Like we ain't asking for much just be a decent guy that isn't full of hate

[Asker]

I mean that's not me at all and that sounds like a minority of men.

I feel like the majority of dudes who struggle to date are decent men.

I feel like it's not true that most men have bad attitudes towards women.