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I always thought that the good guys would appreciate a girl that doesn’t come with a lot of baggage. I’ve only had sex and dated one guy, lol I haven’t had sex since and this was over 3 years ago. I feel the opportunity could have happened but I really just don’t have the urge to sleep around. I live alone, I could have had guys over. People say that I’m just a square but I just don’t have the urge. But sometimes I think screw it, I should try to live it up because I’m on the road to being a spinster anyway. I want a quality guy but really guys don’t give me the time of day, I’m told I’m attractive, few of you agreed. But I don’t get approached in person, I’ve tried dating apps only but have not had any luck besides the last guy I dated. Quite frankly, nothing was lucky about that. I felt like I was settling physically and would have preferred to remain a virgin. I don’t care if I never have sex again, I would like a quality guy though. Don’t want kids either, I just worry years down the line I will feel regret for being so antisocial and living an uneventful life. But I just can’t wrap my head around why the kind of guy I want wouldn’t have come around yet, most educated attractive women have no issue getting a date.

I’m one of those working adults who hates spending way too much money. I didn’t buy contact lens because quality dailies like Acuvue cost 65SGD to 90SGD for 30 lenses that means you have to buy two boxes. I don’t buy makeup, luxury bags and accessories, go to facials, spas or massages. I detest getting my nails painted at a nail salon and I stopped dying my hair and will never consider plastic surgery. I noticed Dorcas uses makeup, fake lashes, contacts, had an expensive handbag, dyes her hair at a salon because it’s never easy to dye your own hair and she earns somewhere from 2000SGD to 2500SGD. I think she spends around 5045SGD to 6500SGD on wants per year I could be wrong tho. I would only buy outfits if my clothes have holes in them and will only buy a new phone every 5 or 6 years. For me I calculated my wants spending per year it’s only 300SGD. I’m not against people who spend a lot of money as long as they have savings for their old age and emergency. It’s no good if you’re spending way too much money until you don’t have enough for yourself.