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Search Results: trying too hard
How to handle a lack of interest by women
This is actually both a question and a proposed answer My Take. Maybe even a Journal of where my life is at currently. To start, I will state my dilemma. I notice there is something missing in my life that makes my life...
strangeatcircleK
Xper 4 Age: 42 I kissed my ex?
I won’t drag it out, but my ex broke up with me 8 months ago after our relationship got a bit toxic/intense. It was probably my fault, but I think she was at fault too. We hadn’t seen eachother since the break-up until...
Anonymous
(25-29) At what age do men no longer see women as marriageable?
I don't get out too much, but when I try to meet guys online, I don't have a lot of luck. I've always found it hard to meet men, probably because I'm more sexually conservative, but in my mid thirties, it's gotten worse....
femalenpc
Xper 3 Age: 38 6 weeks of no contact, what is my ex thinking?
I’ve just ended an 8 year relationship. We have known each other 15 plus years. Our relationship was open, and we was allowed sex or certain types of sexual contact with agreed partners throughout the relationship, and we...
Anonymous
(36-45) Court case going on family pushing me to take a deal that would mess up any chance of me having a normal life agin what should I do?
My family keeps trying to push choices on me, which at first I was doing whatever they said out of fear, but nothing they told me to do worked out. They are now pushing me agin to try following another bs plan that may...
Anonymous
(30-35) Is it ok for a friend to ask a guy out on my behalf?
I’m really shy and she’s trying hard to force me out of my shell. This includes giving me unsolicited dating advice, pushing me to go out on dates, telling me who to match with and CONSTANTLY asking me to keep her up to...
Anonymous
(36-45) Is it time to bow out of these friendships. Or am I taking it too personal?
I work in the entertainment industry, so my roster of colleagues is pretty impressive. I’ve always found it hard to make friends with the everyday person because it’s hard for me to relate. I always remain humble, and try...
Anonymous
(30-35) How do I fix this?
I’ve been really dealing with self esteem issues, my social skills are bad. I tend to be quiet, and reserved but recently I’ve been trying to be more outgoing. I’ve isolated from my friends and family members. My brothers...
Anonymous
(25-29) I think something is off with me?
I’ve been really dealing with self esteem issues, my social skills are bad. I tend to be quiet, and reserved but recently I’ve been trying to be more outgoing. I’ve isolated from my friends and family members. My brothers...
Anonymous
(30-35) I’m 27, and I think something is wrong?
Hi! I’ve been really dealing with self esteem issues, my social skills are bad. I tend to be quiet, and reserved but recently I’ve been trying to be more outgoing. I’ve isolated from my friends and family members. My...
Anonymous
(30-35) No matter how hard you try in a relationship can you not be good enough?
I was deemed too boring, too good and because I didn't constantly go along with what she wanted and would speak my own ideas as well she didn't want to be in a relationship. She also didn't ever want to communicate cause...
Anonymous
(30-35) Ex is my colleague and he always looks at me?
My ex and I work together on the same floor. I find him looking at me, when I smile he doesn’t and take off his eyes as if nothing happened and no expression change. I catch him looking at me trying too hard to not get...
Anonymous
(18-24) What do you find annoying at restaurants
One of the best things about going out to eat is being able to relax and enjoy good food and company. But to the experience, it’s important to be mindful of your surroundings. That means being present in the moment and...
Daniela1982
Master Age: 38 Do you find that timid girls are friendlier and even better looking than the "popular" girls?
Not necessarily the nerdy variety. Just normal looking quiet girls. The ones that may look unfriendly, but are in fact very sweet and talkative once you get to know them. They are generally lonely too. The popular 10/10s...
Anonymous
(36-45) Should I stay with my boyfriend if I don't love him as much?
My boyfriend is the best guy i have ever dated he makes all the efforts and loves me a lot which is why i said yes to him. It has been a year since we started dating and i have to remind myself most of the times to...
Anonymous
(18-24) Why don't a lot of the guys on here get that just because you CAN stare at a woman creepily doesn't mean you SHOULD do that?
So there's been a number of times on here where a woman will say something to the effect of 'It's ok to look but NOT stare!' and then guys will come around and say 'its my RIGHT to stare so i will do as i please.' And i...
Still-alive
Master Age: 42 
Attracted to a coworker. was he trying to get me to make a first move?
He’s only a couple years older than me and we’ve worked together for quite a while. He’s a manager but he’s super cute, easy to talk to, and pretty funny. I know I’m not the only girl there who probably thinks that but...
Anonymous
(25-29) Why would a man try to set you up with his best friend?
Supposing aforementioned guy was a previous crush and friend from years ago, who got in contact with you recently? Why push so hard for it, too? Do guys do that out of a sense of fear that you might seek more than a...
Do guys find black women attractive?
I am a black woman. Regardless of how hard i try Too impressed guys. guys just aren't impressed by black women at all. A white woman can look like she just got herself out of bed and guys go crazy about them. Do guys just...
Anonymous
(25-29) How hard would it be to reject a woman while drunk and still be loyal to your girlfriend/wife?
I saw this myself. My friend was trying to hit on a married man at a party. She was going for a kiss and started touching him. The man mildly shoved her and yelled ''Get Lost''. He did that while drunk himself. The man...
Anonymous
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