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We wanted to make a baby before we were dating. Okay, maybe this is a little crazy, but before me and Raine were dating, we talked about having a baby. I can talk more on that in the updates if you guys and gals want, but right now I want to talk/ask about motivations.

1. Loneliness

One big motivation for wanting a baby is to have someone you can love, who NEEDS your love, who can't survive without it. Many people want a baby because they want to have that sense of purpose, which leads to my next point.

2. Hope

We all want the world to be a better place, right? We all want our children or nieces/nephews etc to have a good life, a better life than we did. Some of us see hope that the world will become a better place, or that our children can make the world a better place.

3. Instinctual Reproduction

This is pretty straight forward. We have a built-in biological clock that tells us we must reproduce for the survival of our race.

5. Family

Also pretty straight forward. Many of us would love to settle down and make a family. We want to grow old surrounded by loved ones, knowing that we built a family full of love.

5. Intimacy

There's something special about making a child with someone. I'm a romantic, previously a skeptic. I believe that there is a special bond made when a couple trusts and/or loves each other enough to go raw and finish inside. Idt it's a fetish thing or a weird thing, I just think that's how the chemicals in our bodies work. There's something about it that brings you closer, and ESPECIALLY if it's for the purpose of procreation.

I don’t have an issue with my girlfriend being fat. Actually, I have a fat girl fetish. Every time I see a fat girl with giant boobs my hormones spike out of control. Which is the exact reason I started dating my girlfriend in the first place.

Within the last year her she’s just gained too much weight. Like way TOO MUCH!!! She’s 5”4” and 300 pounds, and her knees are constantly hurting because she’s too heavy. I usually don’t like talking to my girlfriends about their weight but I can’t be silent about this situation.

I used to be a paramedic, I’ve seen so many people her size instantly dead from heart attacks. Her own father died from a heart attack from being over weight.

I tried multiple times talking to her about her weight. I’ve tried to work with her and come up with a fitness & diet plan for her. Every time I try she argues with me and makes up dumb excuses. She says “I enjoy eating food, and I don’t have energy to work out”. Last night, I had to talk to her more serious than usual out of concern because I’m really worried. She yelled at me and hung up.

I’ve explained to her that I’m still very attracted to her and that I have lots of fun with her body in the bedroom. And that I’m only wanting her to loose weight because I want her to live, but. No matter how I try to convince her, she’ll just fight back and break down crying. What do I do? Do I just sit here and let her eat herself to death?