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How can I stop comparing myself to other girls?

During the Covid times, like many, I gained a lot of weight. The grand total being 3 stone (42lbs). I was feeling very bored, miserable and of course I didn't leave the house much so I would just stay indoors eating...
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Girl looks/stares at me when I don't look. Looks attracted to me, but she seems intimidated?

There is this girl in the gym every Sunday who looks/stares at me when I don't see her. Today I thought about chatting her up, but just asked her for how long she's going to use the machine she was using at that moment....
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How does he always catch me glancing at him?

This guy at work seems to always predict when I will look his way. I rarely look at him but in the few cases I do he always looks back immediately as if he always knows what I'm doing and then carries on with whatever he...
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Guys, Would a guy talk to a group just out of pity?

During my internship I was assigned to a Group of students. Since I’m not pretty and most of them were male I was pretty much ignored the entire time while everyone talked normally to the hot girls. There was only one...
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During my internship I was assigned to a Group of students. Since I’m not pretty and most of them were male I was pretty much ignored the entire time while everyone talked normally to Show More
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Guys, Met, hit it off, followed me on socials and liked my post, then suddenly ignored me and removed his like weeks later?

Knew "O" at the start of the year. Always thought he was attractive but way out of my league (tall, accomplished, good looking, popular). Got acquainted on a 1:1 basis at a party recently - danced together (not intimately...
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Met at a party, requested to follow me the morning after, likes my post then unlikes weeks later?

Knew "N" at the start of the year. Always thought he was attractive but way out of my league (tall, accomplished, good looking, popular). Got acquainted on a 1:1 basis at a party recently - danced together (not intimately...
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Guys, Why would he try to avoid me and hide from me?

This guy at work sometimes hides in his seat or under the table when he hears me entering the office and looks the other way. He only smiles at me when other people are around, when we are alone he is very dry and short...
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This guy at work sometimes hides in his seat or under the table when he hears me entering the office and looks the other way. He only smiles at me when other people are around, when we Show More
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Why would a man hide from a woman that rarely talks to him?

This guy goes out of his way to avoid me even though he is very sociable and I hardly ever approach him and we never had a fight. He is comfortable with other women in the workplace
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This guy goes out of his way to avoid me even though he is very sociable and I hardly ever approach him and we never had a fight. He is comfortable with other women in the workplace Show More
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Should a guy make friends with as many women as possible with the hopes that at least one of them would be a girlfriend and the other a side chick?

I go to university and even though I'm almost in my thirties and I only like older women and everyone is younger than me, I'd at least try to approach women and be social and see if they're interested in exchanging...
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Are most men really invisible to women?

Women look at me all the time. Girls peak at me when they think their boyfriend isn't looking. Teenage girls and even younger kids will sneak glances at me or try to find excuses to interact with me. Constantly. If...
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He doesn’t approach me but talks about me to others?

This guy at work I like never seems to be able to hold a conversation with me, and I have noticed that he’s way more talkative to others than he is with me. When I ask him a simple question, he stares at me with a blank...
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As a white American male in American society, is it normal to feel as though I’m in a dating environment where I just can’t succeed/aren’t valued?

I‘m a reserved guy so its just not in my nature to do the approaching. Unless I see some really captivating woman, but that just hasn’t happened yet. However, the fact is, if women were interested in me, than they would...
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Shy guys- would you approach a coworker you’re crushing on & strike up conversation or not so much?

I feel like my shy coworker has a crush on me…it’s a gut feeling but also he stares a lot & goes out of his way to pop into my work area. But he has not talked to me once in 3 months. I keep thinking “if he wanted to make...
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Should I make a move on my crush? Should I confess or just get his number from someone and text him? Should I let his friend tell him?

So I have a crush on this guy at church. We’ve known each other for years in the way that we see each other at church and we’re both very involved in church stuff and he talks to my brother every now and again. So he...
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Guys, Should I make a move on my crush? Should I confess or just get his number from someone and text him? Should I let his friend tell him?

So I have a crush on this guy at church. We’ve known each other for years in the way that we see each other at church and we’re both very involved in church stuff and he talks to my brother every now and again. So he...
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The False Promise of Looks: A Surface Deep Liability

In many online circles of unhappily single men and women, attractiveness is heralded as the barrier to romantic access and relationship success; and whilst it is true that an individual's appearance determines how...
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Could it really be I'm so pretty I scare guys away?

This sounds so arrogant but I promise I'm not. I'm actually very insecure and cry a lot about how I look. I'm convinced people are lying to me most of the time especially because of the extreme compliments they give me I...
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Guys, why am I never approached by you?

For all my teenage years I had wondered why no guy has ever approached me. And I would very much appreciate to receive constructive criticism from new perspectives. I am a 19 year old 5’6 Scandinavian girl with long...
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Guys, My boyfriend is going through a lot, I feel horrible and want to help him?

For the Men... My boyfriend is a wonderful hard working man and I admire him so much for his dedication to his work. He decided to leave his job to pursue his own thing but unforeseen circumstances has left him 'biting...
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