I‘m a reserved guy so its just not in my nature to do the approaching. Unless I see some really captivating woman, but that just hasn’t happened yet.
However, the fact is, if women were interested in me, than they would approach. I’m not saying they’re obligated to, but only that I’m seemingly in an environment where I’m not valued, or even noticed much at all for that matter. Not even a passing hello is sent my way.
I recognize its my responsibility to do something about it since I desire change.
However, all I care for is just forming a connection with one woman.
Sounds simple, but it hasn’t been.
And I’m not the type of guy to complain about shit being unfair but my friends do tend to be the fringe outcasts of white American males as well.
So I don’t really have opportunity for personal growth that I can think of.
My only solution, the way I see it, is to relocate and try somewhere different.
But at the end of the day I feel all I really want is to just settle down and catch a break from it all.
I hate being in college and the girls here just aren’t right for me.
Its possible that maybe out of nowhere from left field I defy the odds and manage to luck out and just meet this absolutely amazing woman but I don’t realistically expect it to happen.
I’m not even trying to be a pessimist, though I do feel pessimistic, its just most of the guys I’ve known similar to me have had no luck either.
So is it perhaps time I immerse myself in a different environment?
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Modern Western women are a total mess. Most western women are promiscuous, entitled, loud, obnoxious, and overall insufferable. If it weren't for sex men would not deal with western women at all. Think about that for a second.
So many western women complain that all men want is sex, when the reality is sex is all western women have to offer. Western women have such little substance, faithfulness, honor, and fortitude. How could any man trust a women who would kill her own child? How can a man trust a woman who identifies as a feminist? How can any man trust a woman who has been over-fucked and just sees a man as a resource provider?
Bro, unfortunately your time on this planet overlaps the time when western women are the lowest quality people on the planet. You can do much better overseas. You can find a good, traditional woman, who is centered on creating and caring for you and your family. The key is to not bring her back to the U. S. where she will be bombarded by feminist propaganda.
What career should I pick up for an international move?
@WhiteBoyChill. You are an IT guy, right? IT seems ideal.
I’m not in IT
You need to do some self reflection. I know it's hard to even consider as a naturally self absorbed male but think. Do you really think that all the women around you are the issue to the point that you need to go to a whole different country? Maybe will realize the issue is you, if you try very hard and think about it... This type of question is just crazy.
Anon... you slay me. You are the classic narcissistic, entitled, over fucked, insufferable, "modern woman". Why don't you go get an abortion or something.
There’s obvious a suitable woman, its just I feel as though I cannot realisticaly expect to find her. And if it is possible, its likely 5x the effort than it would be somewhere else
@WhiteBoyChill. That's a perfect example of Hoeflation.
No there are Asian women who only want white guys.