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As a black woman, black American men don't meet my dating criteria mentally, emotionally, intellectually, nor in income. Is that odd?

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So I've come to the realization that I have nothing in common with black men when it comes to dating except skin color. I am more compatible with other races. Can any of you relate? Is this odd? For example, I am an animal lover yet most black men I've spoken to say ,"eww I don't do animals." Or if mention going to the white water center where you go rafting, canoeing, kayaking, and rock climbing they'll say ," oh no I don't do that that's white people stuff". Only black men that I have encountered that do like these things are a small portion and it's usually the wealthier educated black men which is a very small portion.
As a black woman, black American men dont meet my dating criteria mentally, emotionally, intellectually, nor in income. Is that odd?
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I see someone put in the comments that I am picky. If you think wanting someone who is adventurous, mentally, emotionally, and financially stable picky then you are an unhealthy individual.
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To make it clear I have always dated men from EVERY racial group. White, black, Asian, latino.. by far black American men have been the WORSE. Black men who are African, afro carribean, or from Europe we have very similar values when it comes to religion, marriage, politics, work ethic, and education.
As a black woman, black American men don't meet my dating criteria mentally, emotionally, intellectually, nor in income. Is that odd?
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