Guys, Why would he try to avoid me and hide from me?

[Anonymous]

This guy at work sometimes hides in his seat or under the table when he hears me entering the office and looks the other way. He only smiles at me when other people are around, when we are alone he is very dry and short with me but charming and relaxed with everybody else. After overhearing me complain to another coworker about him ignoring me he approached me to tell me I could always talk to him if I had any work related questions and looked at the ground the entire time as if he felt guilty. What is his problem? He is nice and sociable with pretty much anyone but with me he is very standoffish and avoidant

He thinks your unattractive

Other reason

[djmzes]

Simple

• Go and ask him
• Keep thinking and make some kind of assumptions

Choice is yours although you know the answer.

[Asker]

No I don’t know the answer

[djmzes]

Go and ask him.
It is simple as that

[spartan55]

Again with this? He hides under a table? Bullshit, that's ridiculous. The guy doesn't like you for some reason, and you just cannot stand it. You can't just forget him and go about your business?

[Asker]

because i have to work with him and he likes pretty much everyone except me

[spartan55]

Yeah, and? You are more than old enough to know that everyone isn't always going to like you. Complaining to your co-worker was not a good idea, but nonetheless. Just act like you're not bothered.

[Anonymous]

He think you like him, but he doesn't feel the same about you.

[Asker]

But I never gave him any signs and most people think i dislike him

[Opinion Owner]

He might have thought you did.

[Asker]

what would make you think a girl likes you if she hardly ever talks to you?

[Opinion Owner]

Why don't you ask him.

[Asker]

yeah, like "do you think i like you and if so, why?"

[Opinion Owner]

That works.