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I have an opportunity to marry a younger woman who has an excellent personality and is a very hard worker. We have been friends with for a few years now. It was her idea is purely for economical reasons. It would benefit us both.

But I am not in love with her and she knows that. She said she doesn’t care if I date and sleep with other people. This would be a paper marriage.

I have gotten advice for a few trusted people about this. All but one person said it’s a bad idea. I am leaning towards no myself but besides the economical arrangement a part of me wonders if I’ll ever find an ideal partner given my age.

Ever since I hit 36 (in my early 40s now) my dating life has been hell on earth trying to find a truly decent woman I feel attracted to. I have had a few flings with attractive women who would make horrible wives. I tried dating a girl who i felt so so about physically just for her personality. That slowly got agonizing. I ended up breaking up with her and that ended very badly (she went psycho).

However of me just WANTS this life milestone. But I don’t want to be an adulterer. Even though she understands I might date other woman I do have spiritual beliefs. Oddly the Bible doesn’t say anything direct about premarital sex (but it heavily implied that’s not alright). But it is VERY clear about adultery. I wouldn’t feel comfortable cheating on my wife. Even if it really is a paper marriage and it doesn’t sit well with me.

There's this one lady I met recently. A nice tall Korean woman. Really chill; down-to-earth. She's just a friend, but I only just found out today she's a big-shot manager at a semiconductor company. She earns about $80K a year (115 million won annually). I was surprised, because I usually assume upper middle-class and rich people are complete snobs.

If she had no financial expectations from you and didn't care how much you made or what you did for a living, would you, as a guy, be fine dating a woman who earned at least twice as much money as you?

If he was a decent guy and had steady income and could take care of his own bills (even if he's poor), would you, as a girl, be fine dating a man who earned half as much money as you and was relatively poor?

I have this friend who apparently is said to be a 7 out of 10 but he’s depressed and has no job but he gets so much attention from women and he’s like full on depressed and anxious. I have a decent job and women don’t want to date me. Why? Like he talks to women that are like 22-25 and I can’t talk to any women cos they just dismiss me. Why is this? What’s so good about depressed guys?