I usually dress in professional outfits - so turtle neck blouses, ankle length skirts, etc. Or very causally so men's cargo pants (I grew up a tomboy, "sue me") or jeans & an old t-shirt.
Most of my friends & colleagues don't mind. I've had guys (decent / respectable guys, such as business owners) flirt when dressed in either fashion so I know that it attracts people.
But a guy am thinking of seeing keeps complaining my style is bad & I am like... I don't know what you want. What **does** someone in their 30s dress like?
